KEYSHIA COLE IS MY FAVORITE ARTIST, I HAVE ALOT OF RESPECT FOR HER MUSIC. ALOT OF ARTISTS SHOULD SHOW MORE OF WHAT THEIR LIVES ARE LIKE TO HELP PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THE NOBODY IS PERFECT, EVERYONE IS HUMAN AND WE GO THREW THE SAME THINGS, EVEN IF WE'RE NOT ALL RICH AND FAMOUS. THIS SEASON WAS SO SAD AND A BIG REALITY CHECK FOR MYSELF AND OTHERS. I BELIEVE IN MY HEART THAT NEFFE MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE, I'M ALSO A SINGLE MOM SO I KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO RAISE A CHILD ALONE, ITS HARD IS HELL.IF U DON'T HAVE KIDS OR HAVE NEVER BEEN IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS KEEP YOUR COMMENTS TO YOUR DAMN SELF. NEVER JUDGE BUT WHAT SEE.MS FRANKIE IS A TRIP I JUST DON'T LIKE THAT EVERYONE PUTS HER ON THE SPOT ALL THE SHE'S BEEN THREW ALOT NOBODY AND CHANGE WHAT HAS ALREADY HAPPEND THE IMPORTANT THING IS TO LEARN AND GROW FROM EVERY EXPERIENCE.FRANKIE HAS ALOT OF WORK TO DO, DO I THINK SHE WILL GET CLOSE TO HER KIDS? YES" SHE HAS HER CHANCE NOW.MY GIRL KEYSHIA IS A STRONG PERSON ALL THE WAY AROUND THE TABLE. ITS IMPORTANT THAT SHE FIND HER FATHER. BUT IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO PRESS THE ISSUE THEN I SAY LEAVE IT ALONE..BUT I LOVED THE SHOW AMD HOPE FOR SEASON 3 SOON..

First of all, I am SO sick of hearing the "single mother" story. Unless you're a mother who was married and your husband left you and your children to fend for yourselves, I have no simpathy! If you were single when you got pregnant, then damn it, welcome to the world of single parenting! I'm sick of this BLAME THE WORLD mantality women have when they're single and toting around 3 or 4 kids. Second of all, I work in the health care field and when these women decide to have all these kids with no daddy to go with it I think I do have some say so, especially since WE (those of us with real jobs) do in fact pay for it. You pay for it everytime you get your dumb *** up and go to work so they can cut out a percentage of your pay to go towards paying for that woman's health care, that woman's daycare vouchers (the daycare she utilizes while she's at home doing nothing) that woman's food stamps, etc. etc.. I see patients who come into the office and will complain about having to make a $3 medicaid co-pay, all while standing in front of the receptionist with a $100 hair do, $25-$35 manicure, a cell phone and new clothes and shoes. I can't even get a dr's appt for less than $3 and I work there! I think it's time for people to start becoming accountable for their own actions and stop blaming everybody else! When you lay down with a man who isn't your husband, expect to more than likely deal with any issues that stem from that ON YOUR OWN! Don't act all surprised and clueless about becoming a single mother when you were single when you got that way.

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Stay on the subject at hand. Remember Neffe and keeping her child or having an abortion.   I believe she made the right decision.You don't, right. I am only saying the people that are strongly against abortion should ask themselves 'would I assist someone that chose to have a 4th child( for awareness). That long- winded essay, with numerous grammer mistakes and no logical sense in the attempt to playa hate on my role as a social worker wa not called far.  Get educated, stay focused and stand for something that that you can explain in short. The challenge was not taken, but you obviously felt challenged. Read my blog again for a better understanding. I didnot say I was right and you are wrong. I expressed my opinion and respect yours. IT IS IGNORANT TO DISRESPECT someone's opinion eSPECIALLY WITH POOR GRAMMER.

 shasha5575 wrote:

We would have to agree to disagree. I understand your perspective and being proactive as you stated that educating teens to prevent teenage pregnany. I think that is strongly needed, but I work with adult women and education is provided. However, I do not ridicule anyone for making their decisions, I help them to elimnate barriers that are a result of past decisions. In short, its too late to cry over the spilt milk, I play a part in cleaning it up. Others stand and watch from afar and make negative comments, blaming, accusing, and waisting energy as the mess is made. I am not saying noone is wrong for their opinions, I just believe with strong opinions there should be strong support to back it up, not just paying medicaid taxes- that's required from all working individuals. I understand the moral obligation theory,but that will only work in a perfect world where everyone abided by it. If everyone went by the moral obligation theory there would be no crime and poverty. I wish that was so too, but come on.... Watch the news, read, research statistics and continue being educated and surely you may not agree but you will understand why abortion is still legal and a choice.

To prove my opinion as being wrong, the challenge was given to motivate the viewers to assist people in that situation (since you are not for abortion)-rather than judging them. Sorry if you took it as I was judging the viewers- not my intent. Awareness and education is. Is it OK for me to express my opinion?

BY the way I missed it DID YOU TAKE THE CHALLENGE?

 

 

To summarize the season, I'm going to agree with Keyshia's accountant, and advise her to take care of her self. If not, she'll end up like M.C. Hammer, no money, no friends. Frankie is a classic example of taking the negro out of the country, but you can't take the country out of the negro. She caused the entire situation, she went on that bus with an attitude. And Neffe did the same, instead of her showing the Cole's respect when she came on that bus, Neffe passed right by and didn't acknowledge the Coles. Why is she mad at them, she should be grateful they took the time to raise Keyshia. Frankie used Neffe to act a fool in the restaurant. Neffe is ranting and raving, and Frankie continues to drink and sit there and edge her on. If I were Sammy, I would have done the same thing. How dare Neffe talk about respect, and she didn't come with it. Keysia, break em off in their own place, and start traveling by yourself. Take care of YOU!!!!!!!

I DID NOT GET 2 SEE ALL OF IT CAN U SEND IT 2 ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HEY yeah thatz what im talking about because keyshia she no's what shes doin and if her family need her she will put her stuff 2 the side and she will tell them right from wrong and i no what keyshia is talking about on her show and yes i do watch her show its good 2 watch if you dont have parents 2 take care of you and so im feel keyshia family and her i see were shes coming from.....

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HEY yeah thatz what im talking about because keyshia she no's what shes doin and if her family need her she will put her stuff 2 the side and she will tell them right from wrong and i no what keyshia is talking about on her show and yes i do watch her show its good 2 watch if you dont have parents 2 take care of you and so im feel keyshia family and her i see were shes coming from.....

Keyshia Cole's episode went so hard. Keyshia Cole is my role model. I want to meet her so bad. Neffie looks like she a beast with them hands!!!!!!!!!!!! Frankie gets to drunk she needs to slow her role.

Hey Ms.Brooks but honestly i think what Neffe was wrong. How would she feel if someone aborted her. That's a sin! She shouldnt have done it. She had help her mom and keyshia. Maybe that baby was the next superstar or president. But now we will never know.

well to tell you da truth.... ppl need to be on da p's and q's and act like da got sum sense

I think Neffe should do what she thinks is the best for her and her kids.  If she don't feel like she can do it on her own then she can't.  Frankie needs to stop drinking cause that's gonna make her kids not want to get close to her if she acts like she does.  Keyshia seems like she doesn't want to know who her dad is but deep down she does just not right now.

After watching the show, Keyshia grew on me. I use to think that she would be just another famous person that would come and go. Not setting any kind of example for the younger females. But, I admit that I was wrong. After the first few shows. I saw something that I did not see before. And ran out and bought her album. This show shined a spot light on Keyshia that the world never would have seen if not for this show. I am proud of Keyshia. She sets that kind of example that seems to be lacking in our younger generation. I do not miss a show. We have something in our closet. This show also shows that as well. Even the famous ones have something.

And Neffe. Honey, think about what U are about to do. I had to somewhat make that kind of decison before. And Girl, I am paying for it today. All because I wanted someone that did not want me. I regret it. And I can not go back and change nothing. Think about it. You might one day find yourself in my shoes. With someone that Loves You for You. And Love that child regaradless of whatever. Get down on your knees and pray about it. God has already laid your path out for you. So never say never. Yes, You done something wrong and so did your husband. Why should you and an innocent child pay? You should not. Take the bitter with the sweet and live your life. Even if it means giving up your child to another family. See, I wish someone had told me that. I had rather my child be alive and with someone else than cry for a baby that I aborted. I will pray for you as well.

Frankie, I do applaude you as well. At least you can admit what you did and doing your best to try to fix the future. Because, the past is our past. I pray for you as well.

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Real talk I dont think that Neffe made a good decision because even though the unborn child wouldnt have been her husbands, her husband wants a divorce and not treating her right anyway, she doesnt need him because he hooked up with her cousin and thats messed up. Frankie will just have to keep going to counseling because she got alot of things going on with just getting out of jail and she does need to understand that the people who took care of her children are still going to be in her childrens lives, because they've raised her kids and Frankie should be grateful for that. I hope everything goes well with their whole family and Godbless

Dear Tocarra09,

I agree with what you are saying but, you stated, "HER FAMILY IS A TRUE BLACK FAMILY THIER FUN". O my, is all Black families like Keyshia Coles family? I am Black, I come from a Black family, and I am raising a Black family currently. My Black functional family is a true Black family. All my children know who I am (there daddy). My wife know who her children daddy is (me, I am my wifes husband). My family have fun because we are a functional family. On the other-hand, Keyshia Coles family is dysfunctional, there is no fun having a mother who was on drugs. Moreover, the duration of all her children lives thus far. A mother that did not give a damn about Keyshia or her other six children she birth into this world. Frankie is a mess, Frankie need to get her life right, Frankie is the reason for the family being dysfunctional. It seem as though all Frankies children (but for the exception of one who did not show-up) is doing ok. Neffie was affected by Frankies neglect the most. It seems as though she was the least fortunate one out of the group of abandon children; but appears to be the strongest of the group. Neffie has the most experience in reference to what the world will do to a person who is in a pitiful condition.

I do not think Keyshia and her siblings would appreciate you stating "HER FAMILY IS A TRUE BLACK FAMILY THIER FUN". Keyshia is attempting to find structure for her family so they can be a functional family, your statement goes totally against what Keyshia is trying to do out of love for her family. I sincerely hope you wish not your family is as Keyshia Coles family. Keyshia Cole family is a true black family, but not the ideal Black family. Furthermore, they do not appear to be having fun when they are arguing amongst each other, or telling their mother of the pain they suffered for her not being there for them as children growing up in this mean and sinful world. Fun, no; sad, yes.

Just think about what you say before you document it, ok!