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    03-14-2008, 2:23 PM
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Re: BLACK MEN!!!....PLSZ READ!
 cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote:

 UN3QU3 wrote:LMFAO @ cubsfan1973. What lead you to think that I have issues? What are my issues? Because I spoke my opinion? Because I agreed with the truth?

What truth are you talking about - that is your opinion like I have my opinion - like the saying goes --- an opinion is like an *25*hole, everyone has one!!!

It is a fact that a lot of black men and women are not really doing anything with thier selfs. A lot of black men are in jail, and a lot of black women are living in section 8 or on food stamps or something like that. I dont see what your upset about.

I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE A LITTLE UPSET WITH YOUR COMMENTS AND OTHERS LIKE YOU, YOU MIGHT NOT REALIZE BUT YOU ARE PUTTING ALL BLACK MEN IN A BASKET, AND THE DECENT BLACK MEN OUT THERE DOING RIGHT FROM WRONG IS PUT IN THERE AS WELL. YOU SAID MY COMMENTS ABOUT THERE IS NO BLACK UNITY AND PROBABLY NEVER SEE IT, MAYBE OUR GRANDCHILDRENS GENERATION WILL, BUT LOOK AT THIS POST RIGHT HERE, IT SHOWS IT COMPLETELY!!! YOU SAID THAT BLACK MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT THEMSELVES --- IT IS THEIR ONLY DUTY TO WORRY ABOUT THEMSELVES AND NO ONE ELSE. IF PEOPLE WANT TO LIVE WRONG, THEN THAT IS THEIR DUTY THEN!!! I CAN ONLY HELP MYSELF AND NO ONE ELSE, THAT IS WHAT BEING AN ADULT IS ALL ABOUT!!!

 

I see that you are one of those people who dont read the comments clearly and then want to jump on somebody for something that you misunderstood. First of all, how many times do I have to say not all men are like that? How are you gonna tell me what I said? And what I said about black men and woman are true. I see that you dont look at the statistcs but I do. You are so ignorant and Im done arguing with you on this topic. GOOD BYE AND HAVE A NICE LIFE!!!!!!

Screw a statisic!!! And you was talking mainly about black men (the majority in your words) You were not even talking about black women --- If I am ignorant, show me where the ignorance is at!!! I do not see it. Find my quotes and go from there!!!

And like I said before, if these black men (the majority) are bad seeds then their black mothers are to be the blame for them. And really I had no problems with you at first, it was covegirl that I had a blazing issue with, you basically came into the fire.

Also why I said screw the statisics because I am one of those men that are not in that category!!!

Anyways I know I was talking mainly on black men. Isnt this what this thead is about in the first place? And 2nd you acting as if I said that black women were perfect, when I didnt. All I did was reply too whoever started this post. And I said if you dont apply then it does not include you so again why are you upset???!!!!! And Im still not clear on your issue!!!! And you cant always blame it on the mothers. Sometimes but not all the time. That does not make sence because you can raise someone and teach them right from wrong  but that does not mean thats how they will live their selfs. And I know mothers who try to have controll over their sons but just cant becasue they are very rude and disrespectful. But that was not the point of this post. The point was why do most black men talk down on black women. I think she was trying to explain to other dudes how some black women may feel but I dont know because I cant speak for her. So dont try to attack me because I never said that you were wrong about nothing that you said but at the same time what you saying how nothing to do with what Im trying to say. So dont try to make me look like no bitter old black hag because all I date is black men and I have nothing against naw of them.

  
    03-14-2008, 2:33 PM
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Stick out tongue [:P] Re: BLACK MEN!!!....PLSZ READ!
 UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote:

 UN3QU3 wrote:LMFAO @ cubsfan1973. What lead you to think that I have issues? What are my issues? Because I spoke my opinion? Because I agreed with the truth?

What truth are you talking about - that is your opinion like I have my opinion - like the saying goes --- an opinion is like an *25*hole, everyone has one!!!

It is a fact that a lot of black men and women are not really doing anything with thier selfs. A lot of black men are in jail, and a lot of black women are living in section 8 or on food stamps or something like that. I dont see what your upset about.

I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE A LITTLE UPSET WITH YOUR COMMENTS AND OTHERS LIKE YOU, YOU MIGHT NOT REALIZE BUT YOU ARE PUTTING ALL BLACK MEN IN A BASKET, AND THE DECENT BLACK MEN OUT THERE DOING RIGHT FROM WRONG IS PUT IN THERE AS WELL. YOU SAID MY COMMENTS ABOUT THERE IS NO BLACK UNITY AND PROBABLY NEVER SEE IT, MAYBE OUR GRANDCHILDRENS GENERATION WILL, BUT LOOK AT THIS POST RIGHT HERE, IT SHOWS IT COMPLETELY!!! YOU SAID THAT BLACK MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT THEMSELVES --- IT IS THEIR ONLY DUTY TO WORRY ABOUT THEMSELVES AND NO ONE ELSE. IF PEOPLE WANT TO LIVE WRONG, THEN THAT IS THEIR DUTY THEN!!! I CAN ONLY HELP MYSELF AND NO ONE ELSE, THAT IS WHAT BEING AN ADULT IS ALL ABOUT!!!

 

I see that you are one of those people who dont read the comments clearly and then want to jump on somebody for something that you misunderstood. First of all, how many times do I have to say not all men are like that? How are you gonna tell me what I said? And what I said about black men and woman are true. I see that you dont look at the statistcs but I do. You are so ignorant and Im done arguing with you on this topic. GOOD BYE AND HAVE A NICE LIFE!!!!!!

Screw a statisic!!! And you was talking mainly about black men (the majority in your words) You were not even talking about black women --- If I am ignorant, show me where the ignorance is at!!! I do not see it. Find my quotes and go from there!!!

And like I said before, if these black men (the majority) are bad seeds then their black mothers are to be the blame for them. And really I had no problems with you at first, it was covegirl that I had a blazing issue with, you basically came into the fire.

Also why I said screw the statisics because I am one of those men that are not in that category!!!

Anyways I know I was talking mainly on black men. Isnt this what this thead is about in the first place? And 2nd you acting as if I said that black women were perfect, when I didnt. All I did was reply too whoever started this post. And I said if you dont apply then it does not include you so again why are you upset???!!!!! And Im still not clear on your issue!!!! And you cant always blame it on the mothers. Sometimes but not all the time. That does not make sence because you can raise someone and teach them right from wrong  but that does not mean thats how they will live their selfs. And I know mothers who try to have controll over their sons but just cant becasue they are very rude and disrespectful. But that was not the point of this post. The point was why do most black men talk down on black women. I think she was trying to explain to other dudes how some black women may feel but I dont know because I cant speak for her. So dont try to attack me because I never said that you were wrong about nothing that you said but at the same time what you saying how nothing to do with what Im trying to say. So dont try to make me look like no bitter old black hag because all I date is black men and I have nothing against naw of them.

Someone has to stick up for the good black men out there!!!

  
    03-14-2008, 2:38 PM
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Re: BLACK MEN!!!....PLSZ READ!
 cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote:

 UN3QU3 wrote:LMFAO @ cubsfan1973. What lead you to think that I have issues? What are my issues? Because I spoke my opinion? Because I agreed with the truth?

What truth are you talking about - that is your opinion like I have my opinion - like the saying goes --- an opinion is like an *25*hole, everyone has one!!!

It is a fact that a lot of black men and women are not really doing anything with thier selfs. A lot of black men are in jail, and a lot of black women are living in section 8 or on food stamps or something like that. I dont see what your upset about.

I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE A LITTLE UPSET WITH YOUR COMMENTS AND OTHERS LIKE YOU, YOU MIGHT NOT REALIZE BUT YOU ARE PUTTING ALL BLACK MEN IN A BASKET, AND THE DECENT BLACK MEN OUT THERE DOING RIGHT FROM WRONG IS PUT IN THERE AS WELL. YOU SAID MY COMMENTS ABOUT THERE IS NO BLACK UNITY AND PROBABLY NEVER SEE IT, MAYBE OUR GRANDCHILDRENS GENERATION WILL, BUT LOOK AT THIS POST RIGHT HERE, IT SHOWS IT COMPLETELY!!! YOU SAID THAT BLACK MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT THEMSELVES --- IT IS THEIR ONLY DUTY TO WORRY ABOUT THEMSELVES AND NO ONE ELSE. IF PEOPLE WANT TO LIVE WRONG, THEN THAT IS THEIR DUTY THEN!!! I CAN ONLY HELP MYSELF AND NO ONE ELSE, THAT IS WHAT BEING AN ADULT IS ALL ABOUT!!!

 

I see that you are one of those people who dont read the comments clearly and then want to jump on somebody for something that you misunderstood. First of all, how many times do I have to say not all men are like that? How are you gonna tell me what I said? And what I said about black men and woman are true. I see that you dont look at the statistcs but I do. You are so ignorant and Im done arguing with you on this topic. GOOD BYE AND HAVE A NICE LIFE!!!!!!

Screw a statisic!!! And you was talking mainly about black men (the majority in your words) You were not even talking about black women --- If I am ignorant, show me where the ignorance is at!!! I do not see it. Find my quotes and go from there!!!

And like I said before, if these black men (the majority) are bad seeds then their black mothers are to be the blame for them. And really I had no problems with you at first, it was covegirl that I had a blazing issue with, you basically came into the fire.

Also why I said screw the statisics because I am one of those men that are not in that category!!!

Anyways I know I was talking mainly on black men. Isnt this what this thead is about in the first place? And 2nd you acting as if I said that black women were perfect, when I didnt. All I did was reply too whoever started this post. And I said if you dont apply then it does not include you so again why are you upset???!!!!! And Im still not clear on your issue!!!! And you cant always blame it on the mothers. Sometimes but not all the time. That does not make sence because you can raise someone and teach them right from wrong  but that does not mean thats how they will live their selfs. And I know mothers who try to have controll over their sons but just cant becasue they are very rude and disrespectful. But that was not the point of this post. The point was why do most black men talk down on black women. I think she was trying to explain to other dudes how some black women may feel but I dont know because I cant speak for her. So dont try to attack me because I never said that you were wrong about nothing that you said but at the same time what you saying how nothing to do with what Im trying to say. So dont try to make me look like no bitter old black hag because all I date is black men and I have nothing against naw of them.

Someone has to stick up for the good black men out there!!!

 

^^^^^^^^What does that have to do with me and what I am saying? Yea you'll ignorant!!!!!!

 

 

  
    03-14-2008, 3:17 PM
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Stick out tongue [:P] Re: BLACK MEN!!!....PLSZ READ!
 UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote:

 UN3QU3 wrote:LMFAO @ cubsfan1973. What lead you to think that I have issues? What are my issues? Because I spoke my opinion? Because I agreed with the truth?

What truth are you talking about - that is your opinion like I have my opinion - like the saying goes --- an opinion is like an *25*hole, everyone has one!!!

It is a fact that a lot of black men and women are not really doing anything with thier selfs. A lot of black men are in jail, and a lot of black women are living in section 8 or on food stamps or something like that. I dont see what your upset about.

I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE A LITTLE UPSET WITH YOUR COMMENTS AND OTHERS LIKE YOU, YOU MIGHT NOT REALIZE BUT YOU ARE PUTTING ALL BLACK MEN IN A BASKET, AND THE DECENT BLACK MEN OUT THERE DOING RIGHT FROM WRONG IS PUT IN THERE AS WELL. YOU SAID MY COMMENTS ABOUT THERE IS NO BLACK UNITY AND PROBABLY NEVER SEE IT, MAYBE OUR GRANDCHILDRENS GENERATION WILL, BUT LOOK AT THIS POST RIGHT HERE, IT SHOWS IT COMPLETELY!!! YOU SAID THAT BLACK MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT THEMSELVES --- IT IS THEIR ONLY DUTY TO WORRY ABOUT THEMSELVES AND NO ONE ELSE. IF PEOPLE WANT TO LIVE WRONG, THEN THAT IS THEIR DUTY THEN!!! I CAN ONLY HELP MYSELF AND NO ONE ELSE, THAT IS WHAT BEING AN ADULT IS ALL ABOUT!!!

 

I see that you are one of those people who dont read the comments clearly and then want to jump on somebody for something that you misunderstood. First of all, how many times do I have to say not all men are like that? How are you gonna tell me what I said? And what I said about black men and woman are true. I see that you dont look at the statistcs but I do. You are so ignorant and Im done arguing with you on this topic. GOOD BYE AND HAVE A NICE LIFE!!!!!!

Screw a statisic!!! And you was talking mainly about black men (the majority in your words) You were not even talking about black women --- If I am ignorant, show me where the ignorance is at!!! I do not see it. Find my quotes and go from there!!!

And like I said before, if these black men (the majority) are bad seeds then their black mothers are to be the blame for them. And really I had no problems with you at first, it was covegirl that I had a blazing issue with, you basically came into the fire.

Also why I said screw the statisics because I am one of those men that are not in that category!!!

Anyways I know I was talking mainly on black men. Isnt this what this thead is about in the first place? And 2nd you acting as if I said that black women were perfect, when I didnt. All I did was reply too whoever started this post. And I said if you dont apply then it does not include you so again why are you upset???!!!!! And Im still not clear on your issue!!!! And you cant always blame it on the mothers. Sometimes but not all the time. That does not make sence because you can raise someone and teach them right from wrong  but that does not mean thats how they will live their selfs. And I know mothers who try to have controll over their sons but just cant becasue they are very rude and disrespectful. But that was not the point of this post. The point was why do most black men talk down on black women. I think she was trying to explain to other dudes how some black women may feel but I dont know because I cant speak for her. So dont try to attack me because I never said that you were wrong about nothing that you said but at the same time what you saying how nothing to do with what Im trying to say. So dont try to make me look like no bitter old black hag because all I date is black men and I have nothing against naw of them.

Someone has to stick up for the good black men out there!!!

 

^^^^^^^^What does that have to do with me and what I am saying? Yea you'll ignorant!!!!!!

 

 

By this last quote shows what type of woman you are!!! Not once have you pointed out how I am ignorant!!! Because I am sticking up for the men that take care of business --- THE REAL MEN OUT THERE!!!

  
    03-15-2008, 3:12 AM
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Re: BLACK MEN!!!....PLSZ READ!
TO CUBSFAN1973!... LOL, I NEED TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP CUS IM SPEAKIN THE TRUTH? BUT A BLACK MAN WHO POSSESS STRONG HATRED FOR HIMSELF, HIS RACE, HIS MOTHER, ABANDONS HIS KIDS, (AND THE LIST GOES ON) DOESNT NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP??? WOoow!... AND IF YOU'RE A DECENT BLACK MAN AS YOU CLAIM TO BE, SHUT THE HELL UP!!! IF IT DONT APPLY, DONT REPLY-SIMPLE AS THAT!... "MAYBE YOU NEED TO GET LAID, GET A LIFE, OR FIND A MAN OF ANOTHER NATIONALITY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY SINCE IN YOUR OPINION (THAT THE MAJORITY) OF BLACK MEN ARE NO GOOD!!!"...LMAO! HOW'S ANY OF THIS GOING TO SOLVE THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN BLACK FOLKS AS A WHOLE???... "IF THESE BLACK MEN ARE NO GOOD, BETTER LOOK AT THEIR UPBRINGING AND IF THEY CAME FROM A BLACK MOTHER LOOK AT THOSE WOMEN WHO DID NOT CARE ABOUT THEIR BLACK SONS!!!" A WOMEN WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO RAISE A BOY THE WAY A MAN WOULD-POINT BLANK! TRADITIONALLY, WOMEN TEACH THEIR GIRLS TO BE WOMEN WHILE IT IS THE MAN'S DUTY TO TEACH THE BOY TO BE A MAN!...YOU EXCLUDE THE FATHER AS IF HE HOLDS NO RESPONSIBILITY IN HIS SON'S LIFE! NO WHERE IN HERE DID YOU MENTION THE FATHER OR HOW HIS ABSENSE MAY AFFECT HIS SON! WHY IS THAT??..AND WUT THE HELL ARE YOU TALKIN ABOUT THEY DID NOT CARE ABOUT THEIR SONS?? BE 4 REAL!!! IF ANYTHING, WOMEN (IN GENERAL) TEND TO CARE AND SPOIL THEIR SON<img src="/emoticons/emotion-56.gif" alt="Sleep" /> MORE THAN ANYTHING!!! NOT THE DAUGHTERS, THE SONS!!! BUT IN A WAY I DO UNDERSTAND WHY YOU MAY DESPIZE ME LOL... I WILL ADMIT, THAT IN MY ORIGINAL POST, I DID COME OFF SOUNDING LIKE I WAS REFERRING TO ALL BLK MEN AS "DEAD BEATS"! BUT SOME OF THAT WAS SAID OUT OF MERE FUSTRATION! I USUALLY DONT POST ON HERE, BUT I OFTEN READ SUM OF THESE THREADS, AND I GET TIRED OF BLACK MEN ON THESE MESSAGE BOARDS (OR ON TV,MAGAZINES,&amp; IN PERSON) DOING THE VERY SAME THING YOU ACCUSE ME OF DOING! SO SOME OF WHAT I SAID CAME OUT OF MERE FUSTRATION &amp; ANGER, AND I DO APOLOGIZE FOR PART OF WHAT I SAID. BUT HONESTLY, IT REALLY DOES PISS ME OFF THAT BLK PPL ARE THE ONLY RACE ON THIS PLANET WHO CAN NEVER SEEM TO GET ALONG, AGREE WITH EACH OTHER, OR SUPPORT EACH OTHER! IT PISSES ME OFF EVEN MORE WHEN BLK FOLKS WONT EVEN TRY TO UNDERSTAND OR CHANGE AND JUST INSIST ON BEING STUCK ON STUPID!!! THATS ALL!...
  
    03-15-2008, 3:50 AM
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Re: BLACK MEN!!!....PLSZ READ!

cubsfan1973 wrote:

By this last quote shows what type of woman you are!!! Not once have you pointed out how I am ignorant!!! Because I am sticking up for the men that take care of business --- THE REAL MEN OUT THERE!!!

 

 

I say you'll ignorant because the arguments you made didnt really have much to do with what I am talking about, plus you act as if you dont understand what I am saying, unless you cant read.  You said, "By this last quote shows what type of woman you are!!!."My comments show that I am strong and I stand for what I truly believe so take it how you want. And by the way you never told me what my so call issues were that you claim I have. Do you truly think that all black men are perfect? And you said "Someone has to stick up for the good black men out there!!!" No one was talking about the men who are doing good and got their heads right. What we are talking about is the ones who are not taking care of their buisness so who are you standing up for? You standing up for the ones who dont have have their heads on right, that's who you are defending. You also said, "Screw a statisic!!!."You only say screw them because they are true and hurtful, but dont act like you are the only one hurt by them. Maybe by people seeing the statisics it will enlighten them and influence them to do better. But I feel like talking to you is a waste of time because you dont even seem clear what the real argument is. You might as well give it a rest!!!!

  
    03-16-2008, 9:32 PM
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Re: BLACK MEN!!!....PLSZ READ!
LOL...i think i read this thread i while back. but thats what im talking about. and notice how u almost NEVER see a black Man come to a black woman's defense! Ms Lady, why should we defend our sistas with words on a message board? What is it really going to solve? Ok, let's say I respond to one of the messages from this individual and it responds back, what have I really accomplished? Will it stop degrading sistas? Will it stop stereotyping brothas? All I'm saying, babygirl, is treat them like they have a *** rally in your city, if no one shows up to hear their hatred, did they get their point across?
Rap is something you do, HIP HOP IS SOMETHING YOU LIVE!!
  
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