sandiowens wrote:

I pray Keyshia understands and is fully aware of the depth of influence she has over her family. Her role as a sister/daughter/auntie/friend is so crucial to this families infrastructure and is the "glue" holding them all together right now. I mean that's some SUPER GLUE right there! LOL!

For her to have been raised by a foster family and then the streets, struggled and hustled to make her music career happen, understand the crazy music business and not be afraid to speak her mind and protect her investment (which is herself!) and then go home everyday and serve as a mentor to her sister, mother and nieces......THIS GIRL IS AWESOME!

And she's so young. There are so many stupid, crazy, irresponsible things she could be doing but she consciously chose to step up to the plate and be the one to bring her family back together, to live a celibate lifestyle in front of her nieces to set an example for them and show them NO MAN will ever love and respect you more than you love and respect yourself. That is huge!! Those young girls are blessed beyond measure to have Keyshia in their lives.

I believe Frankie and Neffe are on the right track and are on their way to healing and forgiving each other and themselves. Frankie has years of pain to work through and I'm sure there are things that happened to her that she will never be able to share with anyone, let alone Keyshia and Neffe or any of her other children but she is trying so hard to get better.

Neffe will make the right decision FOR HER about her baby. Its not up to us to judge her and spout off what we would do if it were us because guess what?? IT AIN'T US! We only see a snapshot of Neffe's life every week but her real life ain't no television show. All we can do is pray for her and send our love her way.

In conclusion I want Keyshia and her family to know they tricked me! They bamboozled me! LOL! When I saw the previews of her show and saw how loud and crazy they were acting I thought, I am not about to waste 30 minutes watching a bunch of crazy black folk act a fool....but boy was I wrong to judge that book by its cover!

I have fallen IN LOVE with this show for two reasons:

1. Keyshia's love and acceptance of her family and the way she tirelessly takes on each challenge with patience and grace. She inspires me to be more patient, generous and graceful in my own interactions with my family and friends.

2. This show doesn't sugarcoat ANYTHING! These women have allowed us to be the "voyeur next door" and witness them at their worst and at their best. I applaud their courage and commitment. I don't know if I would be willing to allow millions of people to turn my life into a circus sideshow event. That takes guts!

Much love to you Keyshia, Neffe, Frankie, the baby girls, and now Elite and Sammy. You have my prayers, my love and most of all.....my applause! Can't wait for next season............

 

i agree with you......Keyshias reality show is the only reality show that is acutally REALITY so many reality shows have things behind the scenes and things that are scripted and thing all the truth comes out later....but this is the one show that shows the real from beginning to end......from day one regardless of how people say keyshia acted i was a fan.....huge fan.......and watching her in this show proves that i was right in being a fan of hers....i have a disfunctional family too....my fam stay beefin,but i love them all.....yet i deal with them from a distance,keyshia decided to deal with her fam up close and personaly...she hasnt given up on them and she wants the best for them......even by putting them all in therapy......knowing that she was raised by someone else but yet put her mother up in her house without really knowing her....that should show frankie that noone has put keyshia against her becuz keyshia has unconditional love for that woman...its ridiculous how much luv she has for the woman that was never really there for her....keyshia cole is the definition of a SUPERWOMAN real talk.....im against abortion but neffie is grown and will do what she wants and its her decision to make,only God can judge her at the end.Frankies daughter that came to the reunion is a beautiful girl,and i hope she has the chance to get close with keyshia....regardless to how ridiculous her mother was acting.....they have alot to work out but i will be praying for them.....i love the show.

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Neffie's situation irritates the crap out of me!  She is a poster child for triflin black mother.  Your hood a** all out in the street arguing.  Grow up and use some birth control!  I hate when women depend on everyone else to take care of their kids!  Get a JOB like the rest of us and stop depending on your sister. And how about not screwing a crack head raw dog.  Jesus you think one would learn after the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd child.  But no, and here you are again, in the same predicament. Did you ever think that maybe if you took off the long fake nails and red weave that maybe, just maybe it may be easier to find a job and you own place to stay, instead of depending on your sister to always bail you out.

 

GROW UP

I couldnt agree with you more!  Neffie, grow up

First I would like to say a few things to Ms. Cole and her mom Frankie. To her mom, I am glad you are trying to make it right. My sister had a similiar issue and now that she is clean 11 years - she has no idea where her children are. Keep getting the blessings Mom. I am so proud of you Frankie. As for Ms. Cole I think you are special and please remain humble. I heard what I hope is a rumor - about you appearing with R. Kelly Neo and who goes on stage first, last whatever. Who cares you are a strong blessed young woman. Please keep up the good works. There are no place for egos where you are going which is the top. Ok the comment to the post. I knew very, very little about Keyshia until the show. I am about her Mom's age and now a big fan. I love the show, love it. And Keyshia want a voice the sound is combo of Tina Turner and Mary J. Blige (you go girl). I think if Frankie continues to pray she can built a relationship with her children. Frankie needs to remember there will always be a little anger but, love can cover anything. Just be happy they love and want to know you. You the mother who brought them into this world your seed and no one can take that away. You had your demons to deal with and you are doing so good. Keep it up please. I think it is important that Keyshia locates her real father. However, no biggie if she does not I would not give up trying cause he may not even be aware he has a daughter. Wow, Neffe that is a big decision that only she can make. I understand were Keyshia and Frankie are coming from however, they are support but, not the ones that actually have to raise the additional child. As a single mom she has her hands full enough with the three girls I should know I raised three boys. I am torn on that because I my new relationhship with God, however, in the past I had to so I understand. On that tip please Keyshia, her producer's email me I am penning a book for single mothers and would like to send a free copy to Neffe. My email is maxb_yasbt@yahoo.com

THIS SHOW WAS TAPED IN THE SUMMERTIME PEOPLE!!!!! SO IT MIGHT ALREADY BE DONE...SHE SAID TUESDAY THE 14TH ...WHICH LED ME TO BELIEVE IT WAS AUGUST WHEN THEY WERE TAPING!!!!!!! REMEMBER KEYSHIA HAS BEEN TOURING AND SHE SAID THE SHOW WAS TAPED IN THE SUMMER....SO...................

I really love the show ,I feel that Keyshia is a remarkable person and she will always be blessed because she gives from the heart and she loves very hard.I love Neffie and I am on her side,but Iwant her to keep her baby,but I see where she's coming from because no one has to deal with that but her,Iwant her to move on and say *8* her stupid a** husband.As for Frankie she is gonna be okay ,they piss me off when they keep making her feel bad for her past,get over it and move on focus on the now and keep it moving.

Crowned you could'nt have been more to the fact of realness. LOUD, IGNORANT, AND JUST PLAIN WANNA BE SEEN. What is the use. OK we see and hear you 2!. Keisha your sister and mom, stay away from them. ...lol...but good thing Keisha didnt turn out like them. Oh how imbarrassing. She stay in counciling and keep learning how to deal with those 2 showing off fools. Lord bless them...

omg that season was good 4 so many different reasons on like every episode i cryed lol but if keysha's sister doesnt think she can take care of her baby than so be it because everything happens for a reason there is always some good out of the bad. i think franky is a very strong person she needs to kno someone loves her. i wish keyshia's sister would relise she doesnt need her babys dad she has a good heart and should move on i wouldnt kill my baby but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do . and as for keyshia not having a father who cares look at her she has faith, family, and lives a great life she has somethimg to smile about having a father r not. dats all i wanted 2 say i love da show #1 fan (smile)

omg that season was good 4 so many different reasons on like every episode i cryed lol but if keysha's sister doesnt think she can take care of her baby than so be it because everything happens for a reason there is always some good out of the bad. i think franky is a very strong person she needs to kno someone loves her. i wish keyshia's sister would relise she doesnt need her babys dad she has a good heart and should move on i wouldnt kill my baby but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do . and as for keyshia not having a father who cares look at her she has faith, family, and lives a great life she has somethimg to smile about having a father r not. dats all i wanted 2 say i love da show #1 fan (smile)

i fell what u is saying on this note will thises notes becaz we go threr the same thing with my famliy love:antionette

I love this show as it shows this family attempting to grow. I was surprised Frankie didn't support Neffe in the abortion. It is so obvious that Neffe does not want to repeat her mother's mistakes. For Frankie to be so judgemental sorta irritated me. Frankie has three kids to raise alone, depending on others is not a good idea- remember Frankie you stated Mrs. Cole helped you with Keisha and then she took your baby. I like Keisha and love her music. OK she is a success despite her barriers, others are not so lucky. To stop the generational curse  by stop having all them babies is a start. To see Keisha's siblings and hear how none of them had Frankie was messed up. The children are not  close like siblings should be as a result of Frankie's past. To occasionally or conveniently be religious and say abortion is against my beliefs, but fornicate, get drunk, and not be a provider for your kids is hiprocacy.  On another note Frankie need individual therapy because I believe she has not forgiven herself for past.  But in the same note I commend her for turning her life around by stop using drugs and trying to make it right with Keisha and Neffe. It seems so much easier to run away as they bring up the fact that Frankie was not there for them over and over again- it looks like it cuts like a knife everytime. But a question came to mind, why isn't Frankie tryin to make things better with her other children? or is she? Huh, maybe one step at a time.

 

 

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I feel from what we were allowed to see, the finale went well. And I feel in time yes Frankie will get closer with her children I have such faith in her plus surrounded with Keyshia's love she can make it. I don't like Neffies decision but she really must do what is best for her. And this goes to Keyshia, fathers are not all they are cracked up to be. If Mr. Cole stepped up to the plate then consider yourself blessed. I love you and stay just as you are. Your family was a joy to watch. Juanita

I RECENTLY TERMINATED MY PREGNANCY AND I REGRET IT EVERYDAY.A CHILD IS A WONDERFUL GIRFT FROM GOD AND SHOULD BE CHERISHED AS ONE. SO I DONT THINK NEFFE SHOULD TERMINATE HERS BECAUSE SHE IS A STRONG BLACK WOMEN, WHO CAN MAKE IT JUST LIKE PLENTY OF THE MOTHERS DO TODAY. STAY STONG NEFFE!

#1 I was not a huge fan of Keyshia's, mainly because a former co-worker played her music ALL THE TIME!!!! But then I saw the first season and seeing her as a real woman made me like her more than before outside of her music, which in turn gave me a better appreciation for her music. #2 Keyshia needs to drop her crazy family and focus ob her own life. She can not save the family (especially Frankie) unless they want to be saved and from the way the show was...... all Frankie wants to do is drink, use up Keyshia's money and pretend to be a mother figure. Doesn't Frankie realize that the last thing Keyshia's grown butt needs is a mother!!! When she needed her she was not there, so give us all a break and just go and get your life together and for heavens sake stay sober!!! #3 I feel for Neffe and her situation, but it is her life and regardless to how anyone feel*102*he one who has to live it. Get a divorce, move out of Keyshia's home and get it together on your own without Keyshia's money. You do seem to want to get it together and I applaud you for that, but your crazy, emotional temper you need to get a grip on. You no doubt got that from Frankie cause she acts like a crazy-loon on a regular. Which only goes to show that therapy did not work and she more than any of you needs to continue with it. #4 Find another therapist.....like Dr. Phil one who will make you see your cr@p for what it really is and not let you continue to blame other people for your mess and take ownership FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE!!!!!FRANKIE NEEDS ONE LIKE THAT! Good luck Keyshia on the album. Good luck Neffe on geeting your life together. All in all I like the series, hope it comes back.