Man...i finally get in a situation for the FIRST time in my life..of ACTUALLY wanting to have physcial relations with a woman i am interested in...But i have ONE problem...my sex drive is like a half running engine of a run down Geo Metro! It wants to act right one day then acts up another day.  My sex drive is not high as i believe it should be. Whatz crazy is when i am away from her i get sexually excited thinking bout her..but a different story when i am wit her. Men and women what is your advice to improve my sex drive? What do i need to do to get my engine running like a corvette. Fellaz have u had such issues not being able to perform with your girl or wife? If so..what did you do?

Go to the doctor. I've never heard of this happening, it could be something medically wrong. You're so brave, most men would never mention this to another living soul.

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Everyone's Favorite Newbie

This has never happened to me but it could be that maybe you are thinking about the actual intercourse too much, like you are anticipating the action too much lol.

 

Try think of sex differently. try thinking of actually being with her and the foreplay and the little pillow talk and by the time she wet and ready, you should be rock solid lol. If that dont work then you need to book an appointment with you doctor.

 

P.s. Is this your first time? Muahahahahahahahaha. Nah seriously. maybe you're just scared. Relax and try and enjoy the WHOLE thing lol

Man I have never had this problem before.(knock on wood). Man just play it cool. don't want it that badly. Maybe you should slow down and just get some rest. Maybe you maybe run down. if that doesn't work then go to the dr. man. You may need some medicine or something. by the way how old are you?

I would suggest visiting a physician who specializes in this issue because I have never been in the presence of a man that is not able to acheive an erection when it is time to perform sexually.

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There are no elevators to success. Every one must take the stairs.

See a doctor about it.Good luck hope every thing works out

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MONEY TALKS BS WALKS

I would say go see a doctor about this issue to.

I read a couple of ur post and u sound kind of young, alot of things will make more sense as u mature. Maybe cause when ur not together u think of the things u want to do b4 sex, and when ur together its a rush to get straght to sex. Try taking your time and not assuming the 4play, rubbing etc means sex,,I usually enjoy watching a women enjoying b4 I really get going,,try to make her burst with out penitration, and see if seeing that excites u. Is she doing something wront to turn u off or not pull u into the mood. It could b a sign, once this happended to me turned out great cause she was a crazy ***### and I was glad it did not go all the way! MY BET WOMEN DROP KNOWLEDGE ON THE YOUNG BUCK TO PASS TO HIS GIRL ON HOW SHE CAN HELP LITTLE HOMIE OUT!!

He's on some new sh*t.