i read the post of being a good wife and i agree to a certain extent. because if i would marry someone they deserve that treatment. but what about the boyfriend that feel "entitled" to that kind of treatment. its not just husbands some men feel like their girlfriends should cook for them and take care of them. i have the whole modern day woman state of mind. i am not taking care of no grown *** man. now i dont mind doing these things if that man "provide" but if he dont he shouldnt expect nothing. i feel like if u want a old fashion woman be a old fashion man and take care of ur woman, buy her clothes, court her, do her hair, nails and then u act "entitled" but if u not "providing" u need to take what u get thats how i feel abot that subject. so many men like to take and sit back and be pampered while they treat their woman like she is a servent and they are the master. alot of men need to know how to play their position cause they always know what we as women suppose to do but they dont know what they are suppose to do. a man that does nothing deserves nothing. i see it all the time. broke no job having , no ambition having leeches that pray on good women and use them for their ownn gain that not right what are ur oppions on this matter.

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Well a guy could say, where's the real women? I think some of our expectations from men are unrealistic. Women should at least meet the men half way... Seriously, some don't know how to cook and/or don't plan on it. Do you think he's going to wine and dine every day? Some may wind up with a carton of wings and fries... alone.... if they're lax with their game. Women seeking long term mates need an edge from other women in the same category -- knowing how to cook is an advantage.

Women have 3 options: Accept without complaints, teach or leave the no ambitioned leech where you found him. These types can't use you unless you allow yourself to be used.