are u revengeful to your mate when ever ur upset? i love to teach my man a "lesson" when ever he acts up i do spiteful grimey things because thats the only way i get heard. he always gets the last word cause he think he is the boss so that's the way i feel i have any sense of control by bringing him to his knees. now i only do this because he dont listen so i have to find other ways of making him learncan any of u ladies relate to being a little spiteful and revengeful to get a point across?

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Attitudes are contagious , is yours worth catching?

I use to do things like that when I was in high school. One time I found out my ex boyfriend had cheated on me with his ex girlfriend the whole time we were together. I wasnt giving up the panties then so I guess he had to look elsewhere. And his ex girlfriend didnt like me because I had took her man. But I got both of them back because I got back with him and flaunted him all in her face, wearing his jacket and necklace, hickies on my neck...lol and when it came time for prom, I dumped him and went to prom with his cousin who was crushing on me throughout high school...OMG he was furious! lol those were the days!...But I have grown and I dont really do it anymore. I like to sit down and talk our problems out. Now after so many times of talking and he doesnt hear me, I get to walking! Simple as that.

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There are two ways to live life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.
-Albert Einstein

No, I've never been a woman that used vindictiveness as a means of gaining leverage when arguing within a relationship.  I would rather discuss the situation and move past it rather than attempting to exact revenge.

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There are no elevators to success. Every one must take the stairs.

I wouldn't go so far as to do grimey things, but when sitting down and talking isn't enough, I tend to be immature at times and purposely irritate my man. We usually end up laughing about it though.

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I take 3 L's to the head... Love Live Life then I'm dead"

yeah men can be immature too so why not us? they always get excuses for their behavior or lack there of.

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Attitudes are contagious , is yours worth catching?

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Heaven knows that am stubborn and have the time i cant even control it lol. But thankfully i have a fiance who doesnt like arguing lol.

I guess sometimes she tires to teach me a lesson by ignoring me or coming to bed late and sleeping at the far end of the bed. But usually a couple of jokes or a kiss at the back of the neck sorts it all out. I guess at the end of the day she knows shes me LIFE!!!

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