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you know...i think that you should weigh all the options and really see if you would be better off without them...it might seem like you are being selfish or whateva, but sometimes people can be holding you back from the things you need to be doing..like they can be stopping you from progressing in life and you might not even see it because all you see is the person you with...sometimes you have to let something go in order to get your blessing...

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I know some people with this problem also and I've observed that sometimes their mate is afraid that once they have accomplished their goal that they will move on without them. I think its a good idea to maybe talk to your mate and see whats going on. Explain to them that the move your making will help both of you in the long run. Express how their support would be appreciated. I know I cant stand a negative person in my life always trying to hold me back. So either a talk can correct the situation or we got a big problem and its time to keep it moving!

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There are two ways to live life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.
-Albert Einstein