ok i'll try 2 make this simple and to the point- i'm not tryin 2 start any tension or arguments- just want your thoughts. i'm a white girl (27) living in alabama and i REALLY like this guy. we get along great, definitely attracted to each other, love talking to him (we work together)- i just really like everything about him. we've started talking about going out b/c we both like each other. my concerns are his family's reaction- i know everyone has diff opinions on interracial dating so i don't want to assume anything- and i def don't want to cause any strain b/n him and his sister and mom- and he also has 2 kids. so, would u consider me being selfish if i pursue something with him or would u think that i need to avoid the whole situation and potentially miss out on something great... of course i don't know how they feel yet. anyway, your thoughts?

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