Would you date a female that's unattractive? If so, what other qualities would you look at in order for her to make up her so called "unattrictiveness"? Also, whats considered unattractive to you?   THESE QUESTIONS ARE FOR GUYS ONLY, I MEAN THE FEMLAES CAN RESPOND IF THEY WANT BUT I WOULD LIKE STRAIGHT UP ANSWER FROM THE DUDES.

Nope. I wouldn't date a female that unattractive. Cause what's unattractive to me has nothing to do with her "looks". Sure, a brother wants an physically attractive female. But she can be "fine" as Halle Berry with an attitude that makes her ugly. A lot of guys end up learning this later in life. Most women know according to society where they fit in the "fine" category. And most act accordingly. It depends on the men (and how many men) she's been with that will determine how good her attitude is or not. Had one too many "bad" men and expect her attitude to show that. I love a woman who acts feminine. Likes feminine things and knows a woman's role. One that knows it's more to pleasing a man then just opening her legs.

Thanks for your response J.D., but I want to ask you...what is the "fine" category? Elaborate please.

Well in black society they think "fine" is exotic, slender with long straight or curly permed hair, a size 34c bust, flawless skin, long eyelashes with pretty little feet and light skinned with an apple bottom. Ya know, the ones you see on BET videos all the time.

Can a person really date someone their not attractive to? If I’m attractive to her then she has to be somewhat attractive, right? or maybe looks vary for different men. I’m not finna mess around with a female who I can’t get into ya know. But a female doesn’t have to be a so called dime either. I’ve had crushes on average lookin' chicks before but I wouldn’t consider them unattractive tho. If she was unattractive, then I wouldn't be feelin' her. I’m usually attractive to females who are average lookin' on up unless a female I usually don’t go for come along and change this.

I have dated a chick that I was not attracted to. I  was with her for a minuet her and I was always fighting cause she said that I didn't respect her she said all that I wanted from her was sex that was the truth because their was nothing else that I really wanted from her. It was kinda funny thought the way I met her. She asked me out in front of all my boys so I couldn't be like naw you aint my type. So oo I took her out and since that day I could'nt get rid of her until she started talking love and stuff. I had to kick her to the curb after that.

 

Men are visual creatures and physical attraction is a HUGE thing. I dont care what anyone says. However i believe the definition of attractive is subjective. So like someone stated up there his idea of attractive is lite skin with long eye lashes. lol thats dont even do it for me. I like them dark with long legs lol. You know, real dark, smooth skin that looks rich? lol

But ones you get to know someone their looks dont matter that much but believe me it help. I love my fiance with all my heart because she has a good heart and is a good person. But everynow and then, i catch my self look, like 'dang, shes fine'.

So u have to be attracted to someone first, obviously getting to know them is then the most important thing.

^^ That's basically what I was trying to say. I was trying my best not too sound shallow because I'm not. Honestly I think being too shallow is the reason why many people miss out on a good catch.

My perspective of fine/sexy is a girl like Sira from Atlanta College Hill; Hell i'd prefer if she was darker, like Senegalese black....LOL that's that AKON black...

 

But attitude, intelligence and general disposition goes along with it too...I'm getting too old (and responsible) to date hoochies...I want access to the dimes, that's my goal.

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No I wouldn't date a woman that's unattractive! Bu""""T, I would date a woman that I'M NOT attractive to, but ONLY once! And this would be to clear my thoughts of why we could NEVER be a pair. Like if she's cute but she's a slim figured woman(no curves) and no juciy booty. Therefore, she will be unattractive to me if she's not a package deal!So to ask will I date a woman that's unattractive? That means to me that this will be a woman with NO attraction about her. But EVERY woman should have SOMETHING about her that attracts a man!

It depends on the age of the man. Some women that were attractive to me a couple of years ago,would not be now.