You've watched all the drama unfold for the season, now tell us what you really think about everything that went down. How do you feel about Neffe's decision? Do you think Frankie will ever get closer to her children? Do you think it's important that Keyshia finds her real father? Tell us exactly how you feel, then check out the producer's blog, videos, recaps, pictures from the show and more on the Keyshia Cole page.

Really and truly I don't think the Neffe should terminate the pregnancy. I cried, cried, cried and cried about that. I pray that you have a changed mind and heart. True, no one else has to go through it but you, but what will you tell your girls. The 14th is not far away, think it through sweetie. When you are a caring parent you just can not let that sit. Regardless if the baby is not her husbands, the child belongs to her!!!! Baby if he wanted to be there with you, he would accept the child regardless and pick up the pieces and live on. Don't terminate just because of one mistake. Look at your mother, clean and still trying. let that be a light that shines on you. Don't terminate and then regret it later. This could very well be that young handsome man in your life. That son that you longed for!!!!!

I Love the show its just should me that everybody go throw the same prombles. But it is up to us to fix it and I would like to say to Ms.Cole thank you for showing all black women that they are not the only one going throw this. Ms.Cole U have helped me a lot because me and my mother is just like u and your mother. God Bless and my prays go's out to u and ur family Love always Maria From Dertoit

wow. my mom just reminded me about the show so i got to watch about 20 mins of it. well first off, i dont think neffy should give up her baby..shes capable as a mother to raise these children. look at her own mother, who ahd 7 children and she wasnt fully stable..she did not abort her kids, even though she didnt raise them. no matter how condescending her husband may be at this point, i think he should be the one to man up and not allow his own wife to make a mistake she'll regret forever. (also im not sure but is she having twins??)..but anyways when they got to that park..i honestly was crying and kinda laughing ..the fuss was over nothing..they need to chill. the boy was clearly embarrassed by the way his mother was acting and wanted to associate with people who weren't gonna get all crazy. lets face it, even if he had sat down with them, theyre would STILL be some sort of argument...so he basically might as well just sit with the Cole's from the beginning lol...mannn. even thou by the time keyshia came, everyone was cool, it still seemed as though she was the one to bring everyone together. (although i didnt see the coles after awhile">. all in all, my mom & i loved this episode..laughs and tears..PS I LOVE YOU KEYSHIA!!

I understand Neffe's situation but at the same time, I haven't heard anything about adoption. I can't agree with her decision for 2 reasons, I don't believe in abortion and because adoption is a better option. For Frankie, I think that she could have a better relationship with her kids if she would realize that she just can't pick up where she left off. It's not that simple. For instance, the situation with her son...I understand how he felt because he didn't know her. I would imagine that I would be the same way if a woman I knew to be my mother but didn't know her was trying to tell me what to do. No, I probably would have reacted the same way but would have just let her know you don't know me like that...you need to get there not start there. She didn't handle that well at all. For Keyshia, I think it is important to find her father because if not, it would be a void she will always be longing to fill. I heard her say that she didn't care and she, in her mind, may feel like she is telling the truth but we all know that when the heart goes against the mind, we choose the heart and I don't feel that her heart is saying not to care. I do admire her because as jacked up as her family is, she can still put them on tv. I can say that because my family is jacked up to and a jacked up family is just like sin to me...no one is greater than the other even though it may not be as serious as some families. So you keep working on your family. I believe you all will get where you need to be and I hope you find your other 3 siblings.

My mother and I absolutely love, love, love Keisha Cole. I think she's a great inspiration for other young people from all backgrounds. She's mature, about her business, beautiful, and appreciative of her success. I'm sorry, and Lord forgive me, but Neffe and Frankie could benefit from a course in charm school. It doesn't matter what economical background you come from, people (African-Americans) should not act loud, rude, tacky, and classless, especially in public. That's a shame!! Being loud doesn't get your point across, you're just being loud and being viewed as ignorant. I just hope that they really see their behavior and try to clean up their image. I'm not coming down on them nor am I saying that they are bad people, but how can you get to know them when they choose to act like buffoons. Boy, oh, boy. Young ladies, if you are looking for someone to follow, Keyshia is a great example! If you are loud and a hot mess, try to clean up your act because that's all that will people see. What hurts me the most is that I own my own business, and I have to work extra hard to fight the stereotypes that others have about black people. Thank you to everyone that fuels this image. Then I'm constantly having to say we all don't act that way. We all don't act that way!! Even if you are from the worst of the worst hoods, everyone don't have to know that. It's not a badge of honor, believe me.  Have some class, not only will you be more attractive, but you will be taken more seriously. I wish Keyshia much luck, love, and success from the bottom of my heart.

Well, to start off with, I love you keyshia and the rest of the family. I don't know if you'll ever read this, but I'm gonna speak as if you will. I want to start by saying that I have 5 beautiful children, I've had 2 miscarriages, 1 stillbirth, and I'm pregnant now. And by the grace of God, he sent me a husband almost 4 years ago.With my daughter, I contemplated having an abortion, but couldn't go through with it at the last minute. I have been on my own since I was 16 years old, literally, when I got pregnant with my first child. I had no means of taking care of, but with Gods blessings, I've come this far and made it. I say all this because although you think you're all alone, Neffie, you're not. You have your family, which I'm sure is more than willing to stand by you and help you, no matter what. My family was and still is very similar to yours. My mother didn't raise any of er eight children. Some went to family, some adopted outside the family, some never adopted at all. We argue, but we love each other dearly, and would be willing to do anything for each other. I pray that you decided against the abortion, but if you decided to have it, I still love you, God still loves you and keep loving yourself no matter what anybody says.

Very well stated. I totally agree "CROWNED1"... Keyshia is a down to earth "sistah" and I know she will go far and have much success!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!!!

     I just wanted to say to Neffe that I do understand how people deal with pain differently, and her way is by lashing out (mine too).  But I don't think that she was being fair to her other siblings (mainly her brother) because he didn't want to sit at a certain part of the table that she deemed the right part.  Her other siblings are just as entitled to have feeling of "you weren't there" and " you can't tell me what to do" towards their mother just like she does.

     She also made the comment that her mother can say whatever she wants to say I don't think she lets her mother say what she wants to say to her, so why should other people (The Cole's, her brother) let her say what she wants to say to them.  Just something to think about .

Thank You MsBaisah:

I'm just so frustrated about how we are portrayed  by others and the fact that many of us give others the absolute right to say those things. Frankly, no matter how much I try things never change. For example, I competed in the Miss USA pageant a couple of years ago and some girls, mostly from the rural areas, already have their perception of black people. Anyway, I've decided that I cannot change views, but I can only become successful to prove them wrong. Good luck and much success to you in 2008!!

- Crowned1

That's soo true. Neffie, keep the child. If it inconveniences you, give it up for adoption. As difficult as that may be, it's your only moral option. Abortion is not an option. Death is an inconvenience for ANYBODY. Frankie may not be all there but her words were right: Two "Ks" - keep or kill.You choose.

Another thing I didn't like about the show was how Frankie aggravated her grandchild. That child didn't know her from adam's house cat. He needed to warm up to her and common sense should have told her that. I felt like she was trying to make people go off on her. And I agreed totally with Mrs. Cole...it was not the time or the place and in my opinion, she shouldn't have had to make that statement because it should have been common sense yet again. How can you try to get along with somebody when they are dead set on pissing you off?

Dear Ms. cole I love you before as an artist after your ILOVE YOU even more.  Because you are such a beautiful person may God bless you and protect you.

Dear Keisha I love you before as an artist.  After your show I LOVE YOU even more.  Because you are such a beautiful person.  May God bless you and protect you.

I don't think anyone should be judging what Neffie, is doing. Your not paying her bills, taking care of her or in her shoes. I think every women should have the right to choose what they want to do with there bodies. Neffie I understand everything your doing i'm going through the samething. I just turn 19 yrs old and in college. No one knows what i'm going through but they feel like they have the right to judge me. If you know your not in the position to be taking care of another child, then do what you have to do. Atleast your not being selfish and bring this child in the world when you know your not ready mentally, phyically and financially things that your child really need. I like the fact that your thinking about the both of ya'll. When i seen you cry i cried too, I feel your pain!...Anyways Keyshia I love u gurl ur a real inspiration. I cried watching the show. I wish you the best in life