Yes I was faithful all through out my relationship. We committed to each other and we kept our word. It was hard sometimes I wanted to jump her bones but I held out and It has been a blessing. My girl and I are really close for it.

Men and women should always be up front about this in a relationship.

blkdiimondz learning how to enjoy someone without having sex is a good relationship to establish. There are people who are with each other just because the sex is good or the person gives good head but outside of that, there is nothing else going for them. After awhile that gets old. Just like a person who buy something new then get tired of it. So what ur doing is good and you're right, you shouldn't let society dictate ur life. Society is backwards.

^^thank you tankard

i was talking to a guy who i thought i could be a good match with. i told him about my decision upfront and he respected that, but as time began to pass he wanted to talk about it in depth. the funny thing is that he said "I use to talk to this girl and she wanted to wait but she wasn't a virgin. why all of a sudden stop? that there's no point. "a sinner for a sinner"......... sex is a necessity" eventhough he said he was talking about another person in the past i knew he was trying to get clarification about my choice. he couldn't understand the reasoning behind that type of decision. the more i talked to him about it, the more i started to get turned off and learned (or what i got from it is) that he's not a forgiving person, he doesn't believe in 2nd chances in ppl's life after they've made mistakes, and doesn't believe in a person transforming their life to become a better person. this fool was really trying his hardest to change my mind!!!!! *brushing off my shoulders* it's cool, there will be others....lol

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The voyage of life's Journey is not to seek new landscapes, but to Seek and Find New EYES.

No prop blkdiimondz. Keep ya head up. I'm a firm believer in good things come to those who wait. The brotha just ain't the one ur waitin' on so don't even trip. ...and another thing, how is he not going to believe in 2nd chances? Wait 'till he make a boo boo and see what happens lol! Some people I tell you.