Some of y'all just trying to excuse the immature and punkish females that started the mess in the first place. Under the circumstances, Dru did handle himself well. There is only so much a person can take and every time Ashley L. opens her mouth she is arguing with someone. Everyone is always saying that someone has to be the bigger person and he tried that he didn't say anything to her at first. She kept going, so why should he have to try and resolve the situation? Why is it that she couldn't have left him alone and there wouldn't be anything to resove? Because like I said, she doesn't think that her family is that important, because he still doesn't know why she got upset with him earlier that day. If that were an issue, she would have nipped it in the bud when she first started going off. There is no excuse to disrespect anybody. Respect knows no gender, or at least it shouldn't, so to excuse their behavior to maximize his is punkish, childish, and wrong. Men have feelings too! Why do you think they get angry so quickly? So don't think that because they have penises that they shouldn't have feelings! They made him upset and he lashed out! At least he was lashing out at them for something! They started at him for no reason! She is also a liar! Females want to act hard one minute, then be delicate flowers the next when their actions come back to bite them! If you gone be hard, be hard, and if not, shut up! And who's to say that he even knew her family was in the room? He was off in a whole different section of the computer room having his conversation, and he didn't look up to see if they were still in there after she introduced them to him. Who's to say that he couldn't have thought that she was just giving them a tour of the house and that the family wasn't just passing through? But because she didn't address it, she won't even know if he knew that they were still there! If he knew, then both of them are wrong, because he shouldn't be having a private conversation in a public setting, and she should have cared enough about her family to either ask him nicely to tone his conversation down for her family, or she should have left point blank!

"There is no excuse to disrespect anybody. Respect knows no gender, or at least it shouldn't, so to excuse their behavior to maximize his is punkish, childish, and wrong. Men have feelings too! Why do you think they get angry so quickly? So don't think that because they have penises that they shouldn't have feelings! They made him upset and he lashed out! At least he was lashing out at them for something! They started at him for no reason! She is also a liar! Females want to act hard one minute, then be delicate flowers the next when their actions come back to bite them!" This is so true men do i have feelings too and i have told other girls this many times. I'm sorry i'm a woman, but honestly ladies you can't keep attacking a man and his character and or lifestlye and not expect him to retaliate in some fashion. Sometimes anger blinds you anger does not recognize gender.

If she Represents you and other black women then ya'll are why people theink our black women ar ****s.  How is keepin it real picking on someone and hating on them for no legitimate reason???? Catching attitudes for no reason and when someone asks whats wrong you say nothing or give them the eye of satan? You can be different no one wants to be like everyone else but PMS'n 24/7 or towards certain people  is not being real thats being a ***.....let her act like that to you on sum off the wall ish....bet you'd be ready to wreck her.

MY PROBLEM WIV ALL OF Y'ALL IS THAT U R JUDGIN ASHLEY L BASED ON SCENES U WATCHED ON COLLEGE HILL. U KNOW THE SHOW IS BEING EDITED?? AND BET ONLY SHOWS THE DRAMA THAT HAPPENS IN THE HOUSE AND ASHLEY L IS UNFORTUNATELY PART OF THE DRAMA MOST OF THE TIME .. THANKS 2 DAT STUPID GUY NAMED DRU ... YOU ALL SAID FROM THE BEGINING ASHLEY L NEEDS TO SHUT UP AND THERE WAS THIS ONE TIME THAT SHE KEPT TO HERSELF AND U GUYS STILL COMPLAINED SO I CAN SEE THAT NO MATTER WHAT SHE DOES , U GUYS R STILL GONNA COMPLAIN..Y'ALL JUST NEED TO GIVE UP ON THE UNNECESSARY HATRED U HAVE FOR ASHLEY L.. U GUYS ARE BEGINING TO SOUND LIKE A BROKEN RECORD...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No Ashley L is a 1000% fake. There can be all the editing in the world, bt you can't edit somebody's attitude. They can paste the scenes to make the fight to look more intense, but they can't edit together ignorance if there is none!!!She made herself look completely ignorant and young minded. If she was really on her grown woman, she would have confronted Dru while it was happening RESPECTFULLY and said "Dru, can you please finish your conversation after we leave?" Not tried to put him on blast and get buck in a classy restaurant. She's twenty something years old. She needed to act like it. Then, when she told her sister, she failed to mention her part in, claiming her started it and that he tried to hit Sira. Ashley L and Ashley R. are both 100% fake and wish they'd do something stupid like hit Dru so they get sent home!!!!

I AGREE SHE CAME IN THE ROOM AND SAW HE WAS ON THE PHONE SO WAT HE SUPPOSED TO SHUT UP THE CONVERSATION HE WAS ALREADY HAVING CUZ SHE WALKED IN HTE ROOM HELL NAW THATS HIS HOUSE TO HE WAS ALREADY ON THE PHONE SO SHE SHOULDA SPOKE AND KEPT IT MOVING . BUT I THINK THEY NEED TO JUS *8* AND GET IT OVER WIT!!!!!!

Now you all know Ashley L was wrong and all of those who sat down and listened and watched her act like a fool in a public place need to be beat down just like her... She shouldn't have taken her family in there seeing he was on the phone and she could have handled the issue BEFORE getting to the restaurant. Personally, I think she has very low self esteem and needs help. Just because you may look "pretty" on the outside is nothing if you act like you have no character imbedded on the inside....If I was her family I would be ashamed to claim her...When she got on the phone with her sister, she sat there and straight up lied, by the way. She told what Drew did, but kept stuttering when she was getting ready to say how she acted....

U wild JamicanFlower

I agree with yungflyyscorpio20 1000%. No one can make you be ignorant. And Shadyz, to say we're judging her by what we see on TV.....Hummmmmm........Ain't you doing the same damn thing! You act like ya'll BFF's and grew up together or something. If you have some extra insight that we don't know about than I can understand that. But if you're gathering your opinion of her from what you see on TV as well, then how can you expect us not to do the same!

I'm sorry, but that line, "ASHLEY L IS 1 MILLION % REAL!!!" is just hilarious.

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I don't like Ashley L. First of all, Drew was in the room talking on the phone before she came in with her fam, so he definitely didn't have to get off the phone for her. Second, she was the one that started poppin' off at the mouth at the restarant and Drew had every right to get crunk with her and with Sira since she decided to jump in. I don't think Drew is low enough to hit a female and I believe Ashley L talks crap to him because she knows he won't hit her. I don't think she would would fire off like that to any of the females in the house. I think Ashley L likes keeping up drama, she need to leave Drew alone and let him do him.

ashley l is so wack, drew tried to be the bigger person and not saying nuttin at the table but she still wanted to talk stuff. like drew said u wanna jump up like a *6* u get beat down like a *6*... men are not supposed to hit women but some chicks just need to be smacked

I AGREE WITH THE FACT THAT SHE SHOULD HAVE CALLED DRU ASIDE TO TELL HIM SHE DID NOT LIKE WHAT HE DID .. BUT HEY Y'ALL THIS IS "DRU" WE ARE TALKING ABOUT HE DOEST DESERVE TO BE GIVIN THAT KINDA RESPECT AND I PERSONALLY THINK HE DESERVED WHAT HE GOT AT THE DINNER TABLE . SINCE DRU IS A WACK PERSON WITH NO MORALS WHATSOEVER, I GIVE ASHLEY L PROPS FOR ALL WHAT SHE SAID TO HIM( THAT WAS A SATISFACTORY MOMENT 4 ME )... DID YOU GUYS NOT WATCH HIM HANG UP THE PHONE ON ASHLEY L SISTER, NOW TELL ME WHO IS THE CHILDISH ONE..PLEASE Y'ALL NEED TO STOP WITH THE DEFENSE THAT U R GIVIN DRU, HE DOESNT DESERVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shadyz, Real Talk tho. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if you were at dinner with your friends and some girl started poppin off with you recklessly and in a public place? You would be heated and embarassed regardless of any wrongdoing the girl thought you did. Despite how you feel about Dru, Ashley L was wrong and immature for how she handled herself! Dru does and did deserve some defense for that night. As far as hanging up Ashley L.'s sister goes, hey, she brought it on herself. His actions were immature. But the best way to show somebody they're being immature when being the bigger man doesn't help is to show them a dose of their own medicine. And don't forget that when Ashley L. got on the phone with her sister, she told bold-faced lies. She failed to mention she was even a part of the argument. Like Dru started with her and Sira defended her and they started going at it, when it was really her. But obviously, she nor her family have any class, b/c they were about to come to the house to fight Dru. What you gon' put yaself out on national t.v. over something that petty???? WACK!!! That's the WACK one, boo, but you're entitled to your own opinion!!

I don't care how I feel about a person, if they're right then I'm going to take a stand and tell the other person that they're wrong. I'm not gonna tell Dru...."oh that's just how Ashley is, it ain't right but it's her". That ain't no excuse. She was wrong and they should have told her she was wrong. She din't just ruin the evening for her and Dru, she ruined it for everyone that was at that table. Do you honestly think that any of them can go to that restuarant again. If I was them, even if they let me in, I would be to embarassed to even go. Had that been me and my family, I would have led them to another part of the house and spoke to Dru as soon as they left rather than wait till we're in a public place. I'm the type of person that, if I'm that upset about something, likes to clear the air as soon as possible so that I can fell better about the situation.