Sweetie, you're like 400 years behind in your mentality W/Black men...I'm not surprised b/c it's been passed down to you from generations of single parent women folk...YES SUH BOSS!

But regardless what you've been taught you still have the power to upgrade your game and knowledge of self...choice is yours...otherwise

STAY THIRSTY! LOL

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After a night of succulent passion, I'll have you singin and hummin "crown royal on ice"...on the j.o.b.

A little spoken word by yours truly

Every single person on earth has at least one flaw if not more so what's the point? I only have issue with someone if they are not trying to do better and better from the point at which they started. If you're going down, don't take me with you. I like to keep it movin' round here!

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@covegirl

I was speaking from the head im sorry i went off topic but yes u posted the negative stereotypes of Black Man and i agree. But i try not 2 fall n those category(im still young) but mature enough 2 know better(not sayin im fallin into them). But i LOVE BLACK WOMEN is jus ONE problem i see(with young females)... It seems as if they are like unemotional at times. I know i said it the other day but i found out that they do express emotions when u least expect it. Like if im watching tv, playing a video game, or something else... rather when im not listening or we doing things and they just pop up. They basicly catch us off gaurd.

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Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

IM HAPPY TO SEE THAT MOST OF YOU ARENT TAKING GREAT OFFENSE TO MY POSTS, BCUS I DIDNT CREATE THIS THREAD WITH THE INTENT TO DEGRADE EVERY SINGLE BLK MAN, BUT RATHER TO MAKE BLK MEN (AND WOMEN) TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT THEIR BEHAVIORS, TO EXPLAIN SUM OF THE REASONS FOR WHY BLK MEN THINK THE WAY THEY DO, TO SHOW HOW ITS AFFECTING BLACK WOMEN, AND TO SHOW HOW STUPID & REDICULOUS WE APPEAR TO OTHER RACES! AND PART OF ME JUST WANTED TO VENT OFF SOME STEAM (lol)!.. ITS JUST THAT, I READ ALOT OF THESE MESSAGES ON BET AND ON OTHER MESSAGE BOARDS, AND IT SEEMS AS THOUGH BLK PPL JUS CANT SEEM TO GET ALONG 4 S^!t! AND IT BOTHERS ME!...AND ITS NOT JUS ON THESE MESSAGE BOARDS! ITS EVERYWHERE!..WHEN U SEE US ON TV, WE'RE DEGRADING ONE ANOTHER! IN OUR MUSIC, WE CONSTANTLY DEGRADE ONE ANOTHER! IN THE STREETS, WE CONSTANTLY DEGRADE ONE ANOTHER!..AND IM NOT SAYIN BLCK WOMEN ARE PERFECT & THAT THEY DONT CONTRIBUTE TO ANY PROBLEMS IN THE BLCK COMMUNITY AT ALL (rite now im jus on the men)! BUT MOST OF THE TIME, IT IS THE BLK MEN WITH THE MOST PROBLEMS!.. ITS EITHER THE BLACK MAN WHO CANT SEEM TO GET HIS ISH TOGETHA OR THE BLACK MAN WHO HATES HIS RACE, HIMSELF, & HIS WOMEN!..BUT THEN THERES THE FEW WHO DONT FALL INTO ANY OF THESE CATEGORIES! I MEAN, I HATE TO SEEM LIKE IM BASHIN BLK MEN, BUT ITS JUS THE REALITY. AND I KNOW ALL OF YOU READIN THIS AGREED WITH AT LEAST HALF OF WHAT I SAID, WHETHER U WANT TO ADMIT IT OR NOT!...ANYWAYS,, PEACE OUT!

Nice post though maybe it will be a wake up call 2 some.

 

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Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

As a 100% pure white dude tell this *** to *8* off!  The *** got stiffed by her pimp and now she's bitter!  *8* her!   She's trying to stereo type everything now.  Ask her how many cocks she has sucked in the last month? 

 UN3QU3 wrote:

I understand where you coming from because at first I jumped on her too but that was wrong and Im really sorry for that. She didnt mean ALL BLACK MEN, she only meant some. And in a way she is kind of right because most black men dont stand up for black women and here I am standing up for black men!!! IDK I guess its just hard for me to let it go when it's my race rather the person is talking about male or female.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS BLACK UNITY AND THERE WILL NEVER BE --- PRIME EXAMPLE RIGHT HERE!!! YOU TALK ABOUT BLACK MEN, THERE ARE PLENTY OF BLACK WOMEN THAT ARE JUST AS BAD!!!

@ cubsfan1973 of course there will never be unity because of people who think like you. I have seen so many post on here degrading black women that it is ridiculous. And how is that a prime example? Because Im agreeing that MOST (notice i said most) black men dont respect black woman? So do you think it is okay to talk down on your race? And another thing black people dont even stick together!!!!! All the other races seem to help and support each other but us.

black_dude wrote: lol i bet some of these black men who saying we all not the same still do not measure up to a black womans standards. When i mean standards...i am talking about a legit job, goals, and being faithful. Thats all of most of black women want i hope. @Covegirl i agree that most black dudes are not about sh^t. They chase females that they have no bisness going after. I in NO WAY represent the guys you are trashing. What they do has no impact on my life or the way i live. But u have to be a good woman yourself though...for you can even talk. I live in Texas and all i see is guys driving Buicks with spinning rims, smoking weed, or sitting at the bus stop. I am not that type in any form or fashion. I am not about impressing people or kissing ***...i just do me..and not concerned about what other people think or do. I do not hang out with those types no way.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> TRUE OR FALSE, did you not make the following post : Black women TAKE instead of giving, and 10 reasons why a black woman might not be married? So what do you mean? You said, "I in NO WAY represent the guys you are trashing." But that is what you are doing in these two post, you are trashing black women.

 UN3QU3 wrote:@ cubsfan1973 of course there will never be unity because of people who think like you. I have seen so many post on here degrading black women that it is ridiculous. And how is that a prime example? Because Im agreeing that MOST (notice i said most) black men dont respect black woman? So do you think it is okay to talk down on your race? And another thing black people dont even stick together!!!!! All the other races seem to help and support each other but us.

Wow, people who think like me?!?!? In my posts, if I have something to say, it is not about degrading black women - find one and show me!!! I have had posts out there but I do not target black women!!! I target ignorant people male and female alike!!! What I cannot stand when black people want to show the most ignorant side of themselves and I usually say (YES IN HARSH WORDS) to better yourself. GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT IF YOU ARE GOING TO STEP UP TO ME!!! I LOVE BLACK PEOPLE - I HATE N*GG**S!!!

YOU FIND ANYWHERE WHAT I HAVE SAID THAT IS DEGRADING BLACK PEOPLE AND I WILL SHUT UP!!! GO GET THE FACTS BEFORE TALKING CRAP!!!

 covegirl wrote:LOL CUBSFAN1973...um sweetheart, ive lived around poor black ppl along with middle class black people. and from what ive seen most (notice i say most, not all!) black men fit at least ONE of my descriptions!.. no, you may not be the thugged out type! you may not even be the blk man who lives off women. But you might be that black man whose color struck! u might be that blk man who hates his reflection soo much that he's willing to demean his own mother and sisters!..i dont kno u, therefore i havent figured out which one fits you! but im sure its just a matter of time b4 i figure it out!...and yes, i am very much informed; my opinions are based on observation, facts, and personal experiences!..ya know i find it funny how you managed to look past ALLLL that stuff i wrote about blk men bein brain washed by white men. do you at least think that part is true? if not, you're the one whose "ill informed," or just in denial, OR jus plain stupid!...and no, this has nothing to do with looks Or me not bein able to get a black man LOL! I find that quite funny bein that ive never had a problem attracting men! i sumtimes think im 2 cute for my own d@m good! lol..and ur probably guessin im a dark skin female also, huh? lol...after everything i wrote, i find it very silly and humorous that you would even come to such a conclusion!...do i have to explain myself again? i guess i do!..i almost forgot who i was explainin myself to (silly me!) lol..this is about blk men's screwd up behaviors and messed up ways of thinking! like i said before, i get sick and tired of blk men downin and degrading black women on these message boards, on tv, in their music, and in person! and like i mentioned, its a CONSTANT thing with sooo many black men! you RARELY hear a black women speakin negative about a black man!! u mostly hear black women speakin of how much they LUUUUUV Black Men!!!..A black woman will look out for a black man b4 she looks out for her own d@m self!..But u almost never see or hear that kind of love bein reciprocated.. whenever you hear a blk man speakin of a BlackWoman, he's usually expressing his HATE for them. u rarely see a black man supportin or coming to a blk woman's defense! when it is the BLACKWOMaN who has had the blk man's back from day ONE!... I dont kno if you realize or other black men realize it, but all of you came 4rm a black woman, therfore you're PART of a black woman, aint NO escaping it (lol)!..i think you should probably re-read my message, bcus i see u havent learned anything 4rm it!.....and also, i see where you reffered to me as "ANOTHER BITTER BLACK WOMAN!!!" ..another bitter black woman ey? lol...you're stereotyping me! now what do u think that make you!? no different than me i guess!..I only spoke the truth, you're just mad bcus what i said was true!.. dont like it? TOO D@M BADD!!!...LOL

I am not mad, not at all, it is really amusing because you come off by saying all black men are this and that. There are some great examples of black men that are doing the right thing, that care what happens to black people in general. You say the majority of men are basically low down dirty ba*tards. I can say the same thing about women as well. And yes do  not act like every black women is a saint, that black women have not broke down a black man before, or when that decent guy is there she would say he is not man enough, or he needs to make more money, this is so doublesided. And you go off on me, yes I called you a bitter black woman because that is how you come off!!! I love black people I hate ni**ers  - and you  my dear really seem like the latter.I do not have to learn anything from you because no 1 - I have my own home, I do not live off a woman, I am not a thug, I am educated, I have a career, I am grateful that I get to wake up everyday and go to work and make a liviing, that I can travel, I did not come from a broken home and both my parents have been married for almost 40 years and still together, I had a great role model in how a man should act (which is my father) that yes I was able to be raised in a good neighborhood, that my parents did not want me to live in the innercity so that my brother and I could have the opportunities given to us - which is not free but by hard work and determination. If you have disagreements with black men, why not have the beef with the ones that you had bad experiences with - not generalize each and every black man on this planet. There are bad apples in every group.

 cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote:

I understand where you coming from because at first I jumped on her too but that was wrong and Im really sorry for that. She didnt mean ALL BLACK MEN, she only meant some. And in a way she is kind of right because most black men dont stand up for black women and here I am standing up for black men!!! IDK I guess its just hard for me to let it go when it's my race rather the person is talking about male or female.

>>>>>THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS BLACK UNITY AND THERE WILL NEVER BE --- PRIME EXAMPLE RIGHT HERE!!! YOU TALK ABOUT BLACK MEN, THERE ARE PLENTY OF BLACK WOMEN THAT ARE JUST AS BAD!!! <<<<<<<

Look at what you said in big bold letters!!!!!! Thats what I mean, you have a negative way of thinking  point blank. If you love black people why would you think there is no way that we can unite? And for the record Im pretty sure that I made it clear that I did not mean all black men only most. I never said that black women were perfect. Sure we have our flaws but I dont see black women talking down on black men. I dont think there was anything wrong with what I said. You just dont like that I agreed with her. GET OVER IT BECAUSE ITS THE TRUTH!!!!!!!

 cubsfan1973 wrote:

 UN3QU3 wrote:@ cubsfan1973 of course there will never be unity because of people who think like you. I have seen so many post on here degrading black women that it is ridiculous. And how is that a prime example? Because Im agreeing that MOST (notice i said most) black men dont respect black woman? So do you think it is okay to talk down on your race? And another thing black people dont even stick together!!!!! All the other races seem to help and support each other but us.

Wow, people who think like me?!?!? In my posts, if I have something to say, it is not about degrading black women - find one and show me!!! I have had posts out there but I do not target black women!!! I target ignorant people male and female alike!!! What I cannot stand when black people want to show the most ignorant side of themselves and I usually say (YES IN HARSH WORDS) to better yourself. GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT IF YOU ARE GOING TO STEP UP TO ME!!! I LOVE BLACK PEOPLE - I HATE N*GG**S!!!

YOU FIND ANYWHERE WHAT I HAVE SAID THAT IS DEGRADING BLACK PEOPLE AND I WILL SHUT UP!!! GO GET THE FACTS BEFORE TALKING CRAP!!!

I already explained the first part but anyway where did I say that YOU were degrading black women? I never said you, I was speaking in general. I was simply asking you if you thought that it was okay for a black men to talk down on black men.

 UN3QU3 wrote: cubsfan1973 wrote: UN3QU3 wrote:

I understand where you coming from because at first I jumped on her too but that was wrong and Im really sorry for that. She didnt mean ALL BLACK MEN, she only meant some. And in a way she is kind of right because most black men dont stand up for black women and here I am standing up for black men!!! IDK I guess its just hard for me to let it go when it's my race rather the person is talking about male or female.

>>>>>THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS BLACK UNITY AND THERE WILL NEVER BE --- PRIME EXAMPLE RIGHT HERE!!! YOU TALK ABOUT BLACK MEN, THERE ARE PLENTY OF BLACK WOMEN THAT ARE JUST AS BAD!!! <<<<<<<

Look at what you said in big bold letters!!!!!! Thats what I mean, you have a negative way of thinking  point blank. If you love black people why would you think there is no way that we can unite? And for the record Im pretty sure that I made it clear that I did not mean all black men only most. I never said that black women were perfect. Sure we have our flaws but I dont see black women talking down on black men. I dont think there was anything wrong with what I said. You just dont like that I agreed with her. GET OVER IT BECAUSE ITS THE TRUTH!!!!!!!

What the h*LL are you talking about get over it because it is the truth --- you are so far off the wagon it does not make any sense --- plus the quote that I had in capitals were the words from Chris Rock's last show - I am quoting him and he is telling the truth!!!

Sorry to say and this is not a good note - but there will never be black unity, not in our lifetimes - which is sad and that is the total truth. You can see it for example all over these boards!!! You give me any example how you can see black unity. Black people get upset at the smallest of things!!!

Here is something that really got me thinking when I was watching the Boondocks (The Return of the King episode) this is a must read ---

Dr. King: This is it?! This is what I took all those *** whoppings for?! I had a dream once. It was a dream where little black boys and little black girls could drink from the river of prosperity, freed from the thirst of oppression.. But lo and behold, some four decades later, what have I found but a bunch of triflin', shiftless, good-for-nothing *17*rs! And I know a lot of you don't want to hear me say that word. It's the ugliest word in the english language, but that's what I see now. *17*rs. And you dont want to be a *17*r, because *17*rs are living contradictions. *17*rs are filled with unfulfilled ambitions. *17*rs wax and wane. *17*rs love to complain. *17*rs love to hear themselves talk but hate to explain! *17*rs love to be another man's judge and jury. *17*rs procrastinate until it's time to worry. *17*rs love to be late! *17*rs hate to hurry!

@ cubsfan1973 Thats right there wont be unity beause of people thinking like you!!!!! There can be if black people come togethr but how can there be any kind of unity with that kind of thinking. I dont care if it was Chris Rock's quote. Just because he said it dont make it better. I feel like you should be building up but hey thats just me. All that you wrote I feel like it was a complete waste of your time. Im not trying to argue with you but I can see a argument is the only place this is headed. I made my point and Im pretty sure I made it clear. If your not one of the black men degrading black women then keep it moving because that means it dont apply you.