I commend Neffe for being brave enough to say that she can't handle another child finacially or emotionally.  It's not an easy decision to make, but in the end it's her decision to make, not Keisha's or Frankie's.  In the end she is a single parent with a single parent income. She is dependant on Keisha at this point.  But she's trying to make her way, she has a new job, she's trying to move on past the pain, the hurt, and anger. 

As far as Frankie goes.  Franke has a lot of nerve.  Let he who has no sin cast the first stone.    Yes, she did bring children into this world, but like Neffe said she did not raise them.  Not being there for your children is no less sinful then aborting.  (I am pro choice).  Yes, she may be there mother biologically.  But FRANKIE does not realize that:  IT TAKES MORE THAN DNA TO BE A MOTHER.    Will frankie be close to her children?  Maybe if she earns their respect.  If she takes responsiblity and stop expecting them to forgive her because she birthed them.  DNA does not make up for years of not being there. DNA does not take away Neffe's abuse.  DNA does not take away the emotional connection that was lost when she was strung out on drugs .  Respect is not given it, must be earned.  I realize she's clean now, being clean is not all that Frankie needs to do to earn respect.  Frankie has to start acting like an adult, taking responbility, communicating with respect, treating people with respect.  You can't expect respect if you don't give respect.  Showing up drunk to a family gathering is not asking for respect,  becomming loud and disrespectful is not asking for respect, being loud and ghetto, acting five, and theatening your son (that you were not there for) is not asking for respect.  During the last episode you can tell she was jelous of Keisha' adoptive mother for being there for her children.  She's putting her anger for not being there on the shoulders of another.  I commend Keisha's adoptive mothe for stepping in.  Instead of lashin out she should be greatful her children did not turn out like her.  Keish's were she is now because of her foster familyFrankie has guilt issues she needs to deal with.  She's missed out on years with her children that she can't get back.  That is no one's fault but her owne.  Yes, she's been clean for a year but what about the other twenty four years that has passed. 

I feel you queenb2u, she acted a totally ***, she got on the bus drunk, that go to show you she cant face the world sober, she make sure she act up first, I bet after the show is done and over I bet frankis will be right back out in them streets on drugs.and neffie she is ignorant just like her moma, carring on in a public place like that, I wanted to kick the *73* out of her, stupid black people!!!.

I THINK THE FINALE WAS OFF THE CHAIN.NEFFE WASNT PLAYING I THINK SHE IS SO KRUNK MANE AND THEY MAMA IS SO FUNNY I LAUGHED AT HER THE HOLE TIME THE SHOW WAS ON.AND KEYSHIA IS THE BEST MANE I LOVE HER . HER FAMILY IS A TRUE BLACK FAMILY THIER FUN. I WOULD LOVE TO MEET THEALL. BUT THE ARGUMENT THAT HAPPENED WAS CRAZY BUT NEFFE WASNT GOING MANE SHE REMINDS ME OF MYSELF SHE DNT TAKE NOTHING FROM NOBODY .AND I DNT THINK NEFFE SHOULD GIVE UP THE BABY THOW CUZ I MEAN ITS YOUR BABY AND IM WITH THE MAMA ON THAT ONE ITS YOU OWN FLESH AND BLLOD. YOU KNO WHAT IT TOOK TO GE THE BABY SO USE PROTECTION. AND IF NOT DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES YA KNO. EVENTHOUGH TIMES ARE HARD THATS SUMTHING YOU SHOULDNT DO.BUT I LIKE THE FAMILY AND KEYSHIA AND THE SHOW.

This show has really touched the hearts of everyone in my family. It's nice to know that everyone family goes through just about the same things, but just in a different matter.

Far as Neffe pregnancy goes, I truly understands her point that she was making, even though she will have support from her family, but at the end of the day, Neffe will be the one starting a New Job, Raising another child, with No Father to help support her Mentially nor Physically,while little sista is on tour, mother Frankie is living her life......This is & will be a hard decision for Neffe to make, & did you forget a Husband who is just Straight Selfish out for his.... Neffe made a move to better herself, she needs time for herself right now, if not, how can she be a better mother to her children.

Keyshia, on another hand is doing the best she can to live her life & bring her family together, but at the end of the day, honey you are only one person....

Frankie, she is a proud mother, grandmother, & friend, she will be alright, it just takes a little time, but she's getting there....  

Manny, keep up the Good Work...

You are so right, I agree with you100%.

I really enjoyed your season finalle keisha. I give nothing but mad props and big ups to you. It seems like your finding that middle ground between family life and you career. I can only pat you on the back for not forgetting your people in spite of your sucess it seems like you're friends and family are along for the ride of your sucess. That's beautiful! Being that guardian angel for your mom and sister, that's wuz up! To whom much is given much is required , and you're meeting the requirements. I hope you continue to do you and keep couseling us (ya fans)through song and keep ya head up ma you are truly blessed and a blessing! Holla!!

i think keisha is havin a very hard time with all dis stuff goin on i think she should just go on a vacation by her self

i really liked it i was kinda mad because i b missin some of thim so yeah but i love keisha

i think that Neffe is making the wrong decision because i think if she can do the things to get pregnant then she can take up the responsibility to have it...the father doesnt have to be there to raise the baby she can raise her kids on her own.. you have your family support....be a strong, bodacious woman......i think Frankie would get closer to her children....my saying is leave the past in the past and live for the future tomorrow is never promised to anyone..... im kind of in between about Keyshia finding her real father because me i would want to know but like she said in the finale he hasnt been there 25 years why now but i would just want to know his name .....Keyshia your a true star, keep your head up, i cant wait til next season girl, keep it real, I LOVE YOU KEYSHIA

Neffie and keyshias mother start to much drama frankie cannot go around blaming her mistakes on everyone and neffies so hurt she takes it out on everyone. The cole family are very nice people and should be commended for their job in raising keyshia which was well done not to take away from frankie but it's true they raised keyshia but she is still your child nothing can change that. Framkie shouldn't be drinking alcohol it will cause a relapse neffie needs help.

i did not like it at all

The show was okay. They just had to many commericials. Their were so many cliff hangers they have to come up with a season 3!

I agree, Keysha gurl thru Jesus christ, anything is possible. And the way that u have passion for family is a blessing, thru all that u and your family have been thru. I dare yall to keep trusting God, and see how he blesses. Gurl I look up to u, in a way. Family is very important, and I commend you for the peace that u requested among your family. It takes time for broken hearts to heal. All you can do is take it one day at a time. Frankie, your heart is in the right place, but your mind is not. Make the best out of what left in your life. It takes a woman to admit your mistakes, and you've done that. Your girls need u more now than ever. I'm proud of you, from black woman to black woman. Neffie, baby, If God didn't think that u could do it, then he wouldn't have blessed u. The Lord said that he would put no more on us than we can bare. Take the time to think, and trust God, Pray and ask for guidance. Don't let the devil still your joy, and future blessings. It's a gift to be able to bare a child. Take it to thought. Listen to Your sis and mom. I love you all, and God Bless you.The marriage baby, let it go. It takes a man to run a home. You can do better. Just think about your gurls. Let God be your man for a while. Let him in gurl, and watch him send you a MAN!!!! Not that mess u had at first, b c he used u. He knew how deep your love is for him, and he took advantage of that. But the grass won't stay green on the other side too much longer. Love is pain, God Is Love Life, and Happiness. Trust him!!! You can do anything thru Christ Jesus!!!!!!! Manie, God 's Got a blessing for You!!!!! Love Ya!!!!!

yes im going throw that same prombles i wish i will get help because my family and me going the same prombles.

We all have opinions as to how other people should live their lives. However, we find ourselves in situations where we are not thinking clearly and I think that is exactly what Neffe is doing. She is emotionally torn due to her failed marriage and sought comfort with someone else. Now a child is growing inside and she wants to end his or her life because she is hurting that it is not her husband's child...Don't Do It! As for Frankie and her relationship with her children, it takes time to get over the pain that they have within them. Give it time and your relationship will get stronger each day. We all make mistakes but we learn from them and move on in a positive direction. Her children need to understand this and stop talking about her past...She is still with you and you all should work harder together for a stronger future. Keyshia does need to know who her real father is. She deserves to know her family history so that she can better live her life without all the unanswered questions.