Exactly earl! I have never sat down and made a decision to be straight. I've always like boys had my first bf at 3(lol we got married at the jungle gym noooo joke). It doesn't make sense..... In order to be with someone you have to be attracted to them...... You can't choose who you're attracted otherwise everyone wud be married or have a bf or gf. If you believe you can choose to be gay you're saying that you can be gay if you wanted to. Well I dunno about them earl but I cudnt be gay under any circumstances because I don't like women.... Never have and never will. You cannot force yourself to be attracted to someone. Period end of story.

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Everone is born straight. God made Adam and Eve. Man was ordained to marry women. Being gay is a choice. Someone can talk you into being gay by saying it is an altertive life style. "everubody is doing it' is the battle cry. If you are weak and uncable of thinking for your self,you are going to get duped. If you are anti-God,you will fall for any of the Devil tricks.

QUOTE:-------------This cant be real. Homosexuality is a sin. Clearly it states that in the Bible. God destroyed a whole city because of what they were practicing. It has everything to do with sex and choices. Men having sex with men is not natural at all, no matter what why you look at it. A man's anatomy is not even designed to handle penetration. Men need artificial lubricants just to make it comfortable. Men in men cant produce human life either. Only a man and woman can do that. Its wrong period.---------------------------------------------------------------------------- HONEY_CINNAMON, I AM A GAY MALE WHO HAS NEVER ENGAGED IN PENETRATIVE (A-N-A-L) SEX. A-N-A-L SEX IS A LEARNED BEHAVIOR THAT CAN BE PRACTICED BY ANYONE. (GAY, STR8, BI,) HOWEVER, SOCIETY HAS REINFORCED THE IDEA THAT IT IS SYNONYMOUS WITH HOMOSEXUALITY BY CALLING IT "GAY SEX". IF I EVER FIND A PARTNER, WE WILL PROBABLY ENGAGE IN SEXUAL BEHAVIORS LIKE "FROTTAGE" BECAUSE I AM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THE IDEA OF HAVING SEX THROUGH THE BUTTHOLE. ANYWAY, YOU SPEAK OF THINGS THAT YOU ARE NOT WELL-INFORMED ABOUT. I GREW UP IN A VERY CONSERVATIVE CHRISTIAN HOUSEHOLD. ALTHOUGH I HAD NEVER BEEN EXPOSED TO HOMOSEXUALITY AT ALL, I STARTED HAVING WET DREAMS AS A TEENAGER. THOSE DREAMS ALWAYS INVOLVED GUYS. THEREFORE, MY FIRST ORGASMS WERE INVOLUNTARY. MY SEXUAL ORIENTATION DEVELOPED ON ITS OWN. IT WAS NOT MY CHOICE!

QUOTE: Everone is born straight. Being gay is a choice. Someone can talk you into being gay by saying it is an altertive life style. "everubody is doing it' is the battle cry. If you are weak and uncable of thinking for your self,you are going to get duped. If you are anti-God,you will fall for any of the Devil tricks. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ORGANICONE, YOU ARE A LIAR! BEING GAY IS NOT SOMETHING THAT PEOPLE "DO". SEXUAL ORIENTATION IS AN INTRINSTIC, ENDURING ROMANTIC DESIRE FOR SOMEONE OF THE OPPOSITE OR SAME SEX. IF SOMEBODY TOLD ME THAT HOMOSEXUALITY WAS AN ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLE, I WOULDN'T BELIEVE THEM. WHY? BECAUSE BEING GAY IS NOT A LIFESTYLE, NEITHER IS BEING STRAIGHT. YOU ARE SIMPLY ATTRACTED TO WHOEVER YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO. I AM A GAY VIRGIN, A CHRISTIAN-RAISED MALE WHO HAS SPENT YEARS SUPPRESSING HIS SEXUAL ORIENTATION. WHY WOULD I MAKE MYSELF GAY KNOWING THAT MY SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT WOULD FORCE ME TO SUPPRESS IT?

I don't agree with the homosexual lifestyle.. that means supposed "bisexuals" as well. In my opinion, if you sleep with someone of your same sex regardless if you sleep with someone of a different sex, you are homosexual, not bisexual. Anyway, the Bible says that homosexuals would not inherit God's kingdom, just like fornicators, adulterers, etc. So, really homosexuality is not any worse than a man and a woman sleeping together without marriage. Although the Bible does call it unnatural in God's sight. I don't feel that the church is hard on homosexuals. It is only trying to teach what the Bible states. They shouldn't sugar coat it to spare someone's feelings. The truth will set you free. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------WERE YOU A VIRGIN UNTIL U GOT MARRIED? HOW MANY CHRISTIANS DO U KNOW THAT REMAINED A VIRGIN UNTIL MARRIAGE. IF HETEROSEXUAL-ORIENTED PPL CAN'T EVEN CONTROL THEIR DESIRES UNTIL THEIR WEDDING DAY, THEN HOW DO YOU EXPECT A HOMOSEXUAL-ORIENTED PERSON TO REMAIN A VIRGIN ALL OF THEIR LIFE?

Passingthru,I agree that sin is sin. You sound like a person who knows and believe the bible. If you know that homosexuality is a sin,would you marry someone of the same sex?. Also ,under the New Covenant a person can commit sexual sin by lusting after some one else in thier hearts. If you are not practing the gay lifestyle,why do you think you are gay? your attraction to the same sex can be removed by the power of God. God create male and female to be attractive to each other. There are some pedophiles that are saying they were born that way. Those who lay with animals believe they were born that way. Yes their are virgins who has waited until marriage,and others might have faltered. But God is a forgiving God. If we repent and forsake that sin with His help. "We can do all things through Christ,who strength us". Satan is trying to change God's creation by getting man to demean himself. If you have notice,mankind is God's only creation that lies with the same sex. Animals and beasts will not go in that direction.

Organicone: where are you getting this information from? I don't understand why people say being gay is a trend when a lot of homosexuals especially those who grew/grow up in christian house holds. If its such a "trend" then why is it a lot of them try so hard to "not be gay".... Why do they try to hide their sexuality? That doesn't make any sense to me. Also you made a comment that shows that you have no information upon what you're spwewing. You said that passinthru doesn "practice the gay lifestyle" first off what is this "gay lifestyle" that you are speaking of? Second why do you say that? Because he is a virgin? He still is attracted to males so basically you're saying you can't be gay unless you are having sex. Did you need to have sex in order to kno that you are straight? I sure didn't I was always attracted to boys/men way before sex even crossed my mind. Also again you have made another argument out of ignorance. There are animals who have sex with the same sex animal I will look up an article to support my statement. So explain that? Are they going to animal hell(lol)? That jus goes to show homosexuality and heterosexuality are not choices or decisions, they are sexual orientations that can not be helped.

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These are just some of the websites I found about homosexuality and bisexuality in the animal kingdom. So is it a "trend" for them? Did the monkey go up to the other monkey and say, "all the animals are doin it".... Lol!>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_animals >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2004/07/0722_040722_gayanimal.html >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15750604/

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All the monkey's are doing it???

MUHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHh

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Is just funny to think that people choose to be gay! 

I remember when I was a young child...long before this "TREND" came about...there were a bunch of kids in our neigghborhood....the boys would play football and roller derby (before your time) and baseball.  The girls would jump rope and play with dolls.  There was a guy...JUNE we use to call him.  He never played with us boys..he always played with the girls.

Fast forward about 15 years and june comes to visit...why is june a flaming gay dude...like we didn't know THAT was going to happen. 

SO, young children are making the choice even before they know about sex???

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I see exactly where you're coming from! I knew this boy in my neighborhood and it was the same concept(without roler durby whatever that prehistoric sport is... Lol jp) the girls play with barbies and double dutch and the boys play basketball but this one boy named steven always played with us(the girls) he was younger and he always spoke of how he wanted to be a cheerleader(I'm not making this up) he even had older brothers that we're you typical boys playing ball and all that. To no suprise he's gay and he's like your "stereotypical" gay guy he's always been this way since he I known him and that was since he was 7. So who "talked him into this"? Sure wasn't his brothers..... Sure wasn't any kids on the block. Its rediculous to think people are gay because of trend because in mos communities especially the black community it is still very much so looked down upon

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Neither one of us have a hell or a heaven to put a homosexual/ lesbian person in. That is something that is going on in the world today, but we as people must remember that God will judge us all in the end whether we are gay, straight, lesbian, or whatever. On To Catch a Predator, did you know that whenever they did catch somebody, the charges were later dropped on them ALL. But that's another story... Did you also know that homosexuality/ lesbianism is not permitted and accepted in the majority of the Middle Eastern countries?   

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 Innervoice1963 wrote:The church is not an athiest sect nor a godless sect. The church represents God, which means its expected to teach the laws of God. So the church has no choice but to preach God's law. If homosexuals and lesbians feel stigmatized as a result of this, then so be it. The church is not supposed to be supportive of sinful behavior for the sake of not hurting someones feelings. If this drives them into secrecy; so be it. They still cant hide from God. If I teach and warn my son not to steal, or if I reprimand and embarrass him in front of his friends as I retrieve him from the store that he stole from; am I supposed to now tell him its ok to steal, just so I can make him feel less stigmatized? I think not. If my son then decided to drive himself into secrecy; so be it. He still wouldn't be able to hide from God. I wouldn't feel any remorse for having reprimanded and warned him about the sin he committed. Gay rights are not civil rights, they are human rights. The church doesn't hate homosexuals and lesbians, but the church has to follow God's law and condemn their behavior.

 

^^^^ WELL SAID... I BELIEVE PEOPLE CAN DO WHAT THEY WANT BECAUSE IT IS NOT UP TO ME JUDGE... I DO NOT ATTEND CHURCH BUT I LIVE MY LIFE AS SINLESS AS I CAN... WE ARE ALL HUMAN AND HAVE TO MAKE A CHOICE WHEN GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY... MY HUSBAND AND I ARE BOTH SPIRITUAL... HE READS THE BIBLE ON A DAILY BASIS... IF THE BIBLE STATES THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG THEN WHO IS ANYONE TO DISAGREE... RIGHT??? THAT IS WHAT WE ARE TO LIVE BY CORRECT??? SO IF A PERSON PUSHES THEM SELVES IN HIDDING THAT IS THIER OWN ISSUE THEY HAVE TO DEAL WITH BEACUSE IN GOD'S EYES THAT IS NOT ACCEPTABLE... IF THE PREACHER GOT TO A CERTAIN PASSAGE THEN LOOKED UP AND SAID " WELL NOW THIS PASSAGE WE ARE GONNA SKIP CUZ WE DONT WANT TO OFFEND BROTHERS JOHN & ALLEN"... LOL... NOT FUNNY BUT NOT GONNA HAPPEN... TO ME THAT SEEMS LIKE PEOPLE ARE PUTTING THEIR OWN FEELINGS BEFORE GOD AND I DONT THINK THAT'S A GOOD CHOICE TO MAKE...  

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