i agree with jamaican flower if a man wants to bring girls over n they grind thats his business y is it any concern of mine.Y do people keep on saying hes disrespectful towads women i want some prove of this.He doesnt even talk to them so called ladies in the house n i dont blame him.The man can sleep with whoever is willin to sleep with him whether he brings home i gyal anight or 6 gyal a night is his business not ashleys y i should i get offended of a grown *** man sleeps with a different girl a night i dont care from its not me !y'all says hes this n hes that n e doesnt reat woman right do u see the girls hes with complaining ? leave the man alone let him do him n u do u !

I am sorry, but I am a female and I must say that anyone who agrees with what Ashley did is wrong. She put her hands in his face too, and she called him out in front of everybody (wrong). You are in college to learn how to deal with conflict the right way and she should have pulled him to the side and told him whatever she needed to say. I am lost when it comes to why females think they can put thier hands in a man face and as soon as he looks at them wrong they jump and say " you betta not hit me", why the hell should you be the only one swinging? I do not agree with any man hitting a female but it goes both ways with me.

I think Ashley is real. Yes she can let somethings go intead of commenting on them, but for the most part I think she keeps it real. I think the guys in the house are not use to girls that will stand up for themselves and speak up when they dont like something.

It really doesnt' have anything to do with her being able to stand up for herself. How many black women u know dn't stand up for themselves? I really dn't know many. The problem is first of she's manipulative, confrontational, and violent. Yes violent! The girl slapped his hat off his head. What did he do? Nothing! This supposedly '100% real woman intentionally kicked him in his head, while crossing over the seat in the van like a child. But u seem to think that's okay. At the table he wasn't saying anything to her, but that didn't stop her from acting like ,the parents she love so much, didn't teach her anything. She kept digging and digging and digging until she got a response. She even broke a well know rule, she stood up and began to put her d@%n finger in a mans face. what kind of responds did you think she was tryna get. Of course he's gonna get up and do what he did. and if u look back at the tape all he did was point back in an aggressive manner. I feel sorry for her and the rest of ladies on her that believe that's successful behavior, because it's not. I understand that a man is not supposed to hit a woman, but that doesn't mean u can see how far u can go. Let's not play dumb ladies, if someone did what she did to you, you would've been trying to hit somedody with a heel. Someone's gonna really hurt her. I'm actually scared for the glamorous stripper.

@ JAMAICAN FLOWER, FIRST OF ALL I AINT U .. SO DONT THINK I DANCE TO NASTY STUFF LIKE U DO , U R KINDA WEIRD WITH ALL UR STRANGE COMMENTS. ANYWAYS I HAVE COME 2 A CONCLUSION THAT MOST OF Y'ALL R JUST HATIN 4 NO GOOD REASON.. AND BELIEVE ME GO GO DANCING AINT ANYWHERE CLOSE TO STRIPPIN AND EVEN IF SHE IS, AT LEAST SHE IS HONEST ABOUT IT AND THAT PROVES MA POINT THAT SHE IS 100% REAL.. AND I CAN SEE THAT MOST OF Y'ALL HATIN ON HER ARE FEMALES .. SO DO I SMELL JEALOUSY IN THE AIR????????.. COMMON Y'ALL AM SURE MOST OF U GIRLS R USED TO GUYS CONTROLLING UR LIVES THATS WHY U R DEFENDIN DRU.. HOW SAD.... REALLY SAD

sry ashely L. is fake and childish. Im sad to say some black women disrespect theirselves, we call men *58* but yet women throw theirselves to men its not like drew raped them they gave it to him. and ashely needs to mind her own buisness someones sex life has nothing to do with you. she acts the way she does because she is miserable point blank

How she gonna call Dru out like that at the dinner table then turn around and say he need to grow up.   Come on man,  she is not a real woman because real women would have pulled him to the side and told him how wrong he was for what he did while her family was there.    I still think that Dru like Ashley L  but Ashley L is too stuck up.     She a cool chick but she keep listening to Ashley R and Sira.   Those girls are just stupid!!   Ashley R thinks shes all that and she's no where close to being all that.   And Sira needs to go sit down with her fake ***, nobody don't even be talking to her.       Ashley L and Dru need to sit down like a mature man and woman should and talk about it.

ashley l is a 100% B I T C H!!!!!!!! THAT'S ALL I HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THAT THING ashley l

 flyguyjb wrote:It really doesnt' have anything to do with her being able to stand up for herself. How many black women u know dn't stand up for themselves? I really dn't know many. The problem is first of she's manipulative, confrontational, and violent. Yes violent! The girl slapped his hat off his head. What did he do? Nothing! This supposedly '100% real woman intentionally kicked him in his head, while crossing over the seat in the van like a child. But u seem to think that's okay. At the table he wasn't saying anything to her, but that didn't stop her from acting like ,the parents she love so much, didn't teach her anything. She kept digging and digging and digging until she got a response. She even broke a well know rule, she stood up and began to put her d@%n finger in a mans face. what kind of responds did you think she was tryna get. Of course he's gonna get up and do what he did. and if u look back at the tape all he did was point back in an aggressive manner. I feel sorry for her and the rest of ladies on her that believe that's successful behavior, because it's not. I understand that a man is not supposed to hit a woman, but that doesn't mean u can see how far u can go. Let's not play dumb ladies, if someone did what she did to you, you would've been trying to hit somedody with a heel. Someone's gonna really hurt her. I'm actually scared for the glamorous stripper.Just because you dont know black women that dont stand up for themselves doesnt mean they dont exist. I'm not commenting on this one incident i'm commenting on her overall behavior. Like I said before she can let something go and not comment, but I still think she's real.

NO ONE IS HATIN' ON THAT DUMB A** GIRL BC SHE AIN'T WORTH HATIN' ON. AND I'M FRIENDS WITH A SO CALLED GO GO DANCER SO WHOEVER TOLD YOU IT AIN'T STRIPPIN' JUST AS DUMB AS YOU. IT'S ALL THE F***IN SAME!!!!I DON'T APPROVE OF MEN DISRESPECTIN' WOMEN BUT WOMEN SHOULD NOT DISRESPECT MEN EITHER. YOU HAVE TO GIVE RESPECT IN ORDER TO GET IT. AND ALSO, NO GUY CONTROLS ME AND I WORKED HARD TO GET WHERE I AM AND I'M STILL REACHING FOR THE TOP. I MAKE MY ON MONEY, PAY MY OWN BILLS AND MY SH** IS PAID FOR. I WOULD NEVA DATE A GUY LIKE DRU BC HE NOT MY TYPE. BUT AT THE SAME TIME I'M NOT GONNA BELITTLE HIM EVERY CHANCE I GET. IF ASHLEY GOTTA PUT HIM DOWN TO MAKE HERSELF FEEL BETTER THAN IT SOUNDS LIKE TO ME THAT SHE HAS SELF ESTEEM ISSUES. DON'T GET ME WRONG, IF SHE WORKING AS A GO GO DANCER TO PUT HERSELF THROUGH SCHOOL, THEN I APPLUAD HER FOR THAT. BUT EVIDENTLY IT'S HAVING AN IMPACT ON HER BEING THAT SHE SEEMS TO BE SO ANGRY TOWARDS MEN.

I THINK SHE SHOULDA CAME AT HIM LIKE A FEMALE AND PULLED HIM TO THE SIDE AND LIKE THEY SAID SHE SEEN HIM ON THE PHONE WAT HIS CONVERSATION SUPPOSED TO STOP CUZ SHE CAME IN THE ROOM NOT!AND DRUSKII SHOULDA SLAPPED BOTH OF THEY ASSES!

i dnt like ashley l, the way she went about it was not rite. i respect wat she was sayin but she did not hav to confront him like that in the middle of dinner at a nice restaurant. she cuda pulled him aside at THE HOUSE and been like "hey, i dnt like how you was talkn with ma fam in da room" but instead she attacked him at a restaurant and put her handz in his face. if she had not confronted him and backd him into a corner, he prolly wouldnt of reacted tha way he did. so i respect wat she wuz tryna say, but tha way she went about it is foul.

Anyone jealous of Ashley L. must be really pathetic. I have to agree 10000% with Domo_sc. Ashley is immature, sad, obnoxious, and childish. And she lets it show episode by episode. The way she came at Drew was in no way handled that ladylike. She wasn't that angry about Drew disrespecting her family. It was all just bottled up anger.

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I will have to completely disagree on the statement that Ashley L is representing us black woman well!!! I am so sorry, but in no way shape or form would I want someone to think that all black women act this way. She acts ignorTant, like she has no home training! If I'm not mistaken this was her 2nd time acting up in a restaurant! A RESTAURANT! I would be mortified if she was my sister/friend/daughter. She is not a real woman. A real woman can handle a conflict without it getting violent every time. And Sira carrying that knife on the last episode!!! Girl get a life. I bet if Dru would have said "boo" she would have dropped that knife and ran. These women are full of drama. All of them except Shavon!

ashley is lucky dru aint jamaican like me or else she'd in the ER right about now. that girl is manipulative, violent and a troublemaker. if she was offended with what dru did or didnt do she could have talked to him about it earlier.  and she was wrong. if dru was on the phone she could have gone to him and even interrupted him or simply waited til he was done to go in there. instead she sulked and was trash talking in the restaurant like he wasnt right there in front of her. then those dumb *55* sira and ashley r got all up with her even tho it didnt have *73* to do with them. shavon is all the only of those girls who i rate. she's real. ashley l is a stripper. ashley r thinks she's fine but she aint *73*. and sira needs to learn to talk properly either she talking her native or english but what she's talking is some kind of pidgin crap.