Oh no I'm not talking about just this alone I'm talking about the other nonsense I've seen posted on the board u know all those ignorant racist post.

<BLOCKQUOTE><table width="85%"><tr><td class="txt4"><img src="/Themes/default/images/icon-quote.gif">&nbsp;<strong>Lamar_Carter79 wrote:</strong></td></tr><tr><td class="quoteTable"><table width="100%"><tr><td width="100%" valign="top" class="txt4">Oh no I'm not talking about just this alone I'm talking about the other nonsense I've seen posted on the board u know all those ignorant racist post.</td></tr></table></td></tr></table></BLOCKQUOTE> OO yes thats true. So true and I wont even mention names but she knows who she is.........

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Yeah but i know that n this world u cant be soft but i just dont wanna see the feminine side of a women come out when she gets dressed, get hair hair done, ect. I wanna see it n their attitudes. My sister she got like that personality that i described and i cant really explain it but im sure u get the idea its just something i dont understand. Even though a person had a painful past once open up if someone u know for sure is real, honest, and loyal 2 a person.

See often times i can tell a person emotion by what they say, how they say it, actions, ect. I just have a keen sense.

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 hmpup345 wrote:

I see young females be like "f-him" they dont care about this and that and i be like "how are yall actin tough as men". I have even talked 2 females and they EXPRESS LITTLE 2 NO EMOTIONS. Im like arent yall suppose 2 be emotional creatures? Where's the balance?

They walk (some)around like guys cursing and all and i be like "where is the softer side" that hard body *73* is wrong.

What brooklyntrail said was 100%. They act like that because they are hurt inside and dont know how to deal with it. Sometimes the pain dont even come from ex boyfriends but from family members abused them. Sometimes they do that because they dont want to let people in personal space. For me I dont show love because at this point Im not ready to be in no kind of relatioship but different girls have their different reasons.

I am not sure where you live or that how many black men have affected you. But I know plenty of good black men out there ( I AM ONE!!!) Your post is negative, ill informed, and really you are no better than what you have said about black men!!! YOU NEED A LIFE AND OPEN YOUR EYES!!! Not all black men are thugs!!! Or live off women!!! There are a lot of us who do work, are educated, that are doing the right thing!!! Time for you to look at other areas, learn some culture, do something positive!!! BUT IN MY OPINION, I THINK YOU ARE ONE UGLY WOMAN THAT CANNOT EVEN GET A MAN SINCE YOU ARE TALKING A WHOLE LOT OF CRAP ABOUT BLACK MEN, OR A MAN LEFT YOU FOR ANOTHER WOMAN FROM ANOTHER RACE!!! ANOTHER BITTER BLACK WOMAN!!!

I understand where you coming from because at first I jumped on her too but that was wrong and Im really sorry for that. She didnt mean ALL BLACK MEN, she only meant some. And in a way she is kind of right because most black men dont stand up for black women and here I am standing up for black men!!! IDK I guess its just hard for me to let it go when it's my race rather the person is talking about male or female.

LOL CUBSFAN1973...um sweetheart, ive lived around poor black ppl along with middle class black people. and from what ive seen most (notice i say most, not all!) black men fit at least ONE of my descriptions!.. no, you may not be the thugged out type! you may not even be the blk man who lives off women. But you might be that black man whose color struck! u might be that blk man who hates his reflection soo much that he's willing to demean his own mother and sisters!..i dont kno u, therefore i havent figured out which one fits you! but im sure its just a matter of time b4 i figure it out!...and yes, i am very much informed; my opinions are based on observation, facts, and personal experiences!..ya know i find it funny how you managed to look past ALLLL that stuff i wrote about blk men bein brain washed by white men. do you at least think that part is true? if not, you're the one whose "ill informed," or just in denial, OR jus plain stupid!...and no, this has nothing to do with looks Or me not bein able to get a black man LOL! I find that quite funny bein that ive never had a problem attracting men! i sumtimes think im 2 cute for my own d@m good! lol..and ur probably guessin im a dark skin female also, huh? lol...after everything i wrote, i find it very silly and humorous that you would even come to such a conclusion!...do i have to explain myself again? i guess i do!..i almost forgot who i was explainin myself to (silly me!) lol..this is about blk men's screwd up behaviors and messed up ways of thinking! like i said before, i get sick and tired of blk men downin and degrading black women on these message boards, on tv, in their music, and in person! and like i mentioned, its a CONSTANT thing with sooo many black men! you RARELY hear a black women speakin negative about a black man!! u mostly hear black women speakin of how much they LUUUUUV Black Men!!!..A black woman will look out for a black man b4 she looks out for her own d@m self!..But u almost never see or hear that kind of love bein reciprocated.. whenever you hear a blk man speakin of a BlackWoman, he's usually expressing his HATE for them. u rarely see a black man supportin or coming to a blk woman's defense! when it is the BLACKWOMaN who has had the blk man's back from day ONE!... I dont kno if you realize or other black men realize it, but all of you came 4rm a black woman, therfore you're PART of a black woman, aint NO escaping it (lol)!..i think you should probably re-read my message, bcus i see u havent learned anything 4rm it!.....and also, i see where you reffered to me as "ANOTHER BITTER BLACK WOMAN!!!" ..another bitter black woman ey? lol...you're stereotyping me! now what do u think that make you!? no different than me i guess!..I only spoke the truth, you're just mad bcus what i said was true!.. dont like it? TOO D@M BADD!!!...LOL

TO LAMAR_CARTER79....UMMM...I DONT GET WUT UR SAYIN????..."NO EMOTIONS"??????...HOW DOES A WOMAN NOT SHOWIN EMOTIONS RELATE TO THIS TOPIC OR ANYTHING DISCUSSION ON HERE!?!.....R U REFERRING TO BLACK WOMEN OR JUS WOMEN PERIOD!?!

To Covegirl... Where in my post on this topic did I mention women not showing emotion?? What are u talking about??? Please let me know cause I'm confuse.

Covegirl you just signed up and already you starting stuff.

But I understand what you're saying about men, a lot of them fall into those categories, but you have to understand people are a part of their environment. 

I mean, I hear so many ppl talk about interracial dating, problems with the opposite sex, so on and so forth, but in the real world, that's a minority.

I live in DC, and of course you got the knuckleheads, but there are a LOT of qualified candidates, but they're on the low.  They aren't out there like that, so their business is not out there. 

I say that to say this.  Expand your horizons.  You keep doing the same things at the same places, you gonna see the same men.  You gotta step out into something different to get different results.

Wow, This is really hateful!  I can agree to some of this information in general about a few ethnic men but to make a statement and generalize the African American male as a whole is a bit over the top.  Regardless of all this you've typed, it's only within yourself that you can identiy methods of self hatred that you portray.  This is a prime example of division that unfortunately many hateful Caucasians' :) wanted to occur within our race.  I hope that you find peace within and the strength to not place judgement on others before first looking deep down inside to locate your own imperfections.  Much love

Blatino Out

 

 

TO LAMAR_CARTER79 IM SO SORRY!.. I MEANT TO SAY HMPUP245....LOL!...THIS WASNT FOR YOU. I JUST GOT THE NAMES MIXED UP, FOR SUM REASON YOURS JUS STUCK IN MY HEAD

TO WILLZWAY26.. a lot of them fall into those categories, but you have to understand people are a part of their environment. -SO YOU RECONIZE AND ACKNOWLEDGE THE FACT THAT MOST BLK MEN FIT AT LEAST ONE OF MY DESCRIPTIONS, RIGHT?...IF U READ MY MESSAGE THOUROUGHLY, YOU'LL SEE WHERE I DESCRIBE THE MIDDLE CLASS BLK MAN!..AND IF YOUR AWARE OF YOUR PROBLEM, WHY NOT CHANGE IT INSTEAD OF BLAMIN IT ON YOUR ENVIORMENT? THATS THE EASY WAY OUT! Expand your horizons. You keep doing the same things at the same places, you gonna see the same men. You gotta step out into something different to get different results. -NO,NO,NO!!! DID I NOT SAY I LIVED AROUND POOR/MIDDLE CLASS BLACKS (different parts of tx and in la)!..AND LIKE I SAID, THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE! EXCEPT THAT THE POOR BLLK MEN MIGHT FIT THE DECRIPTION OF THE BLK MAN WITH 20 BABY MOMMAS, LIVIN WITH HIS MOMMA, SELLIN DRUGS, UN-EDUCATED AND SO ON... THE MIDDLE OR UPPER CLASS BLK MEN MOSTLY FIT THE DESCRIPTION OF THE BLACK MAN WHO MAKES IT TO THE TOP & ALL OF A SUDDEN HIS *25*IS TOOO GOOD FOR A BLK WOMAN, HE PUTS THE WHITEMAN'S WOMAN ABOVE HIS OWN D@M WOMEN, and JUST HATES BLK WOMEN ALL TOGETHER!..BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I FIND ALIKE ABOUT JUST ABOUT EVERY BLK MAN? MOST OF THEM ARE VERY COLOR STRUCK, MOST THEM NEVER THINK ANYTHING IS THEIR FAULT! && MOST OF THEM JUST DONT GET IT!!! LOL..THERES A FEW MORE, BUT U GET THE POINT!...BY THE WAY, OR U MALE OR FEMALE??

lol i bet some of these black men who saying we all not the same still do not measure up to a black womans standards. When i mean standards...i am talking about a legit job, goals, and being faithful. Thats all of most of black women want i hope. @Covegirl i agree that most black dudes are not about sh^t. They chase females that they have no bisness going after. I in NO WAY represent the guys you are trashing. What they do has no impact on my life or the way i live. But u have to be a good woman yourself though...for you can even talk. I live in Texas and all i see is guys driving Buicks with spinning rims, smoking weed, or sitting at the bus stop. I am not that type in any form or fashion. I am not about impressing people or kissing ***...i just do me..and not concerned about what other people think or do. I  do not hang out with those types no way.

I have no kids, do not smoke, do not practice immoral sex with different girls, i do not claim to be somthing that i am not also. I also can be found within those hoods...but i do not do what they do. Its all about who ya meet plain and simple. Not everyones is the same.