Hey you're living with the guy and getting along but hey you don't want to marry him because?

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I live with my baby's dad and I do want to marry him but we have a few issues that we need to work out before we take the next step.  We plan to get married sometime at the end of this year or sometime next year.  We are already living a family lifestyle with our daughter but we want to work out our issues before we get married and the issues become worse and we have to go through the terrible divorce process. 

We're divorced. It's better this way.

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I think most females don't marry their baby daddy because that's all he is a baby daddy. Nine times out of ten neither one of them are looking to commit to each other in that way. Or either there is nothing else holding the "relationship" together but the baby.

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man goodness chilli quit with all the baby daddy threads and to the left to the left mess... we get it, you and your sorry babydaddy didnt work out... move on already geesh..

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i dont want to be married to him cause he lied to me bout haveing a female and i dont want to married to someone who will lie bout the most stupidest thing even if we have a kid if we dont get along why get married??

 Igotyouhooked wrote:man goodness chilli quit with all the baby daddy threads and to the left to the left mess... we get it, you and your sorry babydaddy didnt work out... move on already geesh..

 

Aww shut up.. I'll never stop talking about what we women go through every damn day.. so step to the left to the left...

There are relationships that work out it isn't necessarily my relationship but others that do and they still don't get married.

All relationships have ups and downs and people break up and make up like a married people do. Yes maybe kids maybe the reason or they may not be the reason they are still together..

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whatever chilli...all ya damn posts are the same... you always talking about babydaddys and relationships not working out... why not say something positive for a change, and then maybe your luck will change and you wont be on here soundin like a loser all the time in your posts.

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 chilli2006 wrote:Hey you're living with the guy and getting along but hey you don't want to marry him because?

^^ Marriage is not meant for all couples who share a shorty.  I don't have any biological children and I'm never going to have a "baby daddy" but sometimes, two people live together and get along for the sake of the child, but are not ready to make the commitment of getting married.  That's a major step and you have to be POSITIVE that you before you decide to make a lifetime commitment to this man, that your both ready and serious.  Well hell, they should've thought about that before they decided to have a baby, if that was indeed the case.  That's pretty much a lifetime commitment too.

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Why not flip it and ask why don't men marry there baby's momma?

@hah12...that's a good question...

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Honestly most people don't marry their baby daddy because they have issues that they don't take time to resolve,me personally I would want to be with the person that I have a child with for life but sometimes things don't happen like that  because some people don't wanna be tied down for life or don't want to be married and be responsible and sometimes things just down work out like that

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 chilli2006 wrote:Hey you're living with the guy and getting along but hey you don't want to marry him because?

^^ Marriage is not meant for all couples who share a shorty.  I don't have any biological children and I'm never going to have a "baby daddy" but sometimes, two people live together and get along for the sake of the child, but are not ready to make the commitment of getting married.  That's a major step and you have to be POSITIVE that you before you decide to make a lifetime commitment to this man, that your both ready and serious.  Well hell, they should've thought about that before they decided to have a baby, if that was indeed the case.  That's pretty much a lifetime commitment too.

Yes having a child is basically a lifetime commitment and if you are sharing your lives and acting as if you're married sharing the bills getting along having responsibilities and not beefing why not get married?

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 valerie2003 wrote:Honestly most people don't marry their baby daddy because they have issues that they don't take time to resolve,me personally I would want to be with the person that I have a child with for life but sometimes things don't happen like that  because some people don't wanna be tied down for life or don't want to be married and be responsible and sometimes things just down work out like that

You are right some people don't want to be tied down but are tied down for life! They really are and acting as so living together sharing and caring little problems here or there. What if you really end up together for the rest of your lives and not get married will you be sorry that you didn't.

If there wasn't anything serious messing up your relationships like cheating  or constant lies.. I don't see where theres a problem?.. 

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