Can i get HIV from tounge kissing? Can I get Aids from oral sex? What if it's only one time? I don't like to use rubbers and I use the withdrawl method I should be fine, right? I have this knot on my private part and I am haven't gone to the doctor's office to get it checked out, should I tell my girlfriend? I don't want her to freak out.

NO YOU CAN'T GET HIV FROM TONGUE KISSING ONLY BY INTERCOURSE.... AND HIV AND AIDS USUALLY DON'T SHOW UP WITH BUMPS AND WHAT NOT... YOU SHOULD GO THE THE CLINIC TO GET AN HIV TEST AND TESTED FOR OTHER STD'S.... IT VERY WELL CAN BE A BUMP .. OR IT COULD BE ANOTHER STD PROBABLY NOT HIV THOUGH... UNPROTECTED SEX CAN CAUSE STD'S AND THE WITHDRAWL METHOD ONLY APPLIES TO PREGNACY NOT STD'S... TELL YOUR PARTNER AND BOTH OF YOU SHOULD GET TESTED TOGETHER. YOU SHOULD ALWAYS USE A CONDOM BECAUSE WITHOUT IT YOU CAN GET AN STD FROM INTERCOURSE AND ORAL SEX... LOOK ON THE INTERNET OR GO TO THE LIBRARY AND GET INFORMED

 tibbsd wrote:Can i get HIV from tounge kissing? Can I get Aids from oral sex? What if it's only one time? I don't like to use rubbers and I use the withdrawl method I should be fine, right? I have this knot on my private part and I am haven't gone to the doctor's office to get it checked out, should I tell my girlfriend? I don't want her to freak out.

No disrespect to you whatsoever, but I'm surprised! I thought by now this information was readily available in churches, schools, librarires and on the internet. Evidently not in your area, so BIG UPS for seeking knowledge.  Here are the facts...Tongue kissing...YES, with an explaination. 

"HIV can not be transmitted by a kiss. Experts are not completely certain about HIV transmission through deep, prolonged, or "French" kissing. While scientists believe it is remotely possible, there has never been a known case of HIV transfusion through kissing. Most scientists agree that transmission of HIV through deep or prolonged kissing may be possible, but would be extremely unlikely."  tibbsd, now ask yourself this...Is "may be possible" worth dying or killing over.

 HIV from Oral sex...YES..Only one time...YES...No rubber and you'll be alright with withdrawl...NO.  A Knot...Get it checked out. Should I tell my girlfriend...YES; you never have the right to jeapordize another individual concerning STD's or HIV/AIDS. Even if its nothing, your girl should know that you have an issue below the belt. Better yet, if  you r sleeping together or plan on sleeping together, why not have her go with you and you both get HIV tested together.

HIV/AIDS Facts: (Resource: www.stophiv.com)

How HIV is (and isn't) Transmitted

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A person can become infected with HIV in these ways:

• Having sexual intercourse—vaginal, *201*, or oral—with an infected person.• Sharing needles or syringes with an infected person.• Women infected with HIV can pass the virus to their babies during pregnancy or during birth. They can also pass it on when breast-feeding.

Some people have been infected by receiving blood transfusions, especially before 1985, when careful screening and laboratory testing of the blood supply began. However, the risk of infection from blood transfusions today is extremely rare.

A person CANNOT become infected with HIV in these ways:

• People cannot become infected by giving blood at a blood bank.• HIV can not be transmitted through everyday contact with infected people at school, work, home, or anywhere else.• It's not possible to become infected with HIV by using the toilet, shaking hands, sharing utensils, phones, or clothing. It can't be passed on by things like spoons, cups, or other objects that someone who is infected with the virus has used.• One cannot become infected with sweat, tears, sneezes, coughs, or urine.• People cannot become infected by "dry" kissing. Although there are trace amounts of HIV present in the saliva of an infected person, there are no documented cases of HIV infection from kissing. There is a slight risk from deep or French kissing, especially if there are cuts or sores in the mouth.• HIV cannot be carried by a mosquito. The AIDS virus does not live in a mosquito, and it is not transmitted through a mosquito's salivary glands like other diseases such as malaria or yellow fever. You won't get it from bed bugs, lice, flies, or other insects.

How Can Someone Get HIV From Sexual Intercourse?

HIV can be spread through unprotected sexual intercourse with an infected partner. It can be spread from male to female, female to male, or male to male sexual contact. Female-to-female sexual transmission is possible, but rare. Unprotected sexual intercourse means sexual intercourse without correct and consistent condom use.

HIV may be in an infected person's blood, semen, or vaginal secretions. It is thought that it can enter the body through cuts or sores—some so small you don't know they're there—on tissue in the vagina, penis, or rectum, and possibly the mouth.

HIV is transmitted by *201*, vaginal, or oral intercourse with a person who is infected with HIV.

Since many infected people have no apparent symptoms of the condition, it's hard to be sure who is or is not infected with HIV. So, the more sex partners a person has, the greater his or her chances are of encountering someone who is infected and becoming infected themselves.

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 tibbsd wrote:Can i get HIV from tounge kissing? Can I get Aids from oral sex? What if it's only one time? I don't like to use rubbers and I use the withdrawl method I should be fine, right? I have this knot on my private part and I am haven't gone to the doctor's office to get it checked out, should I tell my girlfriend? I don't want her to freak out.No, you can't get HIV from kiss, and yes you can from oral sex. Its only takes one time to get HIV, and no the withdrawal method is not very effective. Have you thought about the precum that comes out? That sometimes has sperm in it so just use a condom anyway. You're putting yourself and your girl at risk. You have a knot, it might be genital herpes. You really need to get that checked ok?

UGH.LOL. BUT YOU SHOULD USE RUBBERS MAN. YOU DONT HAVE TO BE CARYYING NOTHING, BUT YOUR GIRL CAN HAVE SOMETHING ALSO. BUT YOU WONT KNOW UNLESS YOU GO GET TESTED. USE RUBBERS DUDE. FOR REALS. AND DONT BE GOING DOWN ON NOBODY WITHOUT USING A PROTECTOR. IF YOU GOT A KNOT ON YOUR PRIVATE PART, ITS PROBABLY A STD. THATS NOT NORMAL FOR A MAN TO HAVE A KNOT ON HIS D-I-K. FOR REAL. AND YES YOU SHOULD TELL HER. I BE MAD IF A GUY GAVE ME SOMETHING. SO STOP HAVING SEX UNTIL YOU GET TESTED DUDE. THIS COULD BE SERIOUS. AND TELL HER A-S-S TO GO GET TESTED TOO. AND HOW OLD ARE YOU BECAUSE YOU SURE DONT KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THE RISKS OF SEX. YOU NEED TO TAKE A SEX EDUCATION CLASS. IT IS VERY HELPFUL TO KNOW ALLLLL ABOUT SEX.

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 tibbsd wrote:I have this knot on my private part and I am haven't gone to the doctor's office to get it checked out, should I tell my girlfriend? I don't want her to freak out.

 

........YES, you need to go to the doctor immediately! Knots should not grow on your genitalia. Not saying that it is an STD because I haven't examined you, but it isn't normal that's for sure.

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No Tibbs, you aren't able to contract the HIV virus..which leads into the AIDS disease through tongue kissing, it's rare that spit-to-spit contact spreads the virus from one party to another. It's either through semen, blood or needles. Yes, sexual contact without protection may lead to contracting the HIV virus and though you may not enjoy the feeling of condoms, it's better than living the rest of your life with something that will eventually lead to your death. You should inform your girlfriend and visit a physician as soon as possible, don't be ignorant to the workings of this virus and protect yourself at all costs!

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Don't mean to scare you more then what you already are but it could me cancer

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That knot is probably a swollen lymph node, a stopped up gland, or a boil. Either way it could indicate infection. It may be hormonal also, but you shouldn't be taking chances. I am late to this post but I was just adding in case anyone else came along with this question. Also, I would be very careful of whose body fluids I come in contact with whether it be saliva or blood. Even if you didn't contact HIV from someone there are secondary infections associated with HIV that you may come in contact with. There are also diseases such as Hepatitis that are highly transferrable. At one time hepatitis was believed to contain at least 100,000 viral particles per cc of blood compared to HIV which contained 10,000 viral particles per cc of blood. You actually have a better chance of building some immunity with initial contact of HIV than you do Hepatitis. You should protect yourself at all times using condoms if you are having sex. This is your life that you are playing with. Sometimes there are no second chances.

Uh i hope you dont suspect your girlfriend of having aids?? or do u sleep around ?? and i doubt a bump indicates aids uh do u have any other symptoms.

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Can i get HIV from tounge kissing? Can I get Aids from oral sex? What if it's only one time? I don't like to use rubbers and I use the withdrawl method I should be fine, right? I have this knot on my private part and I am haven't gone to the doctor's office to get it checked out, should I tell my girlfriend? I don't want her to freak out. ________________________________________ well iono 4real but you need to get checked what you probably have can be life threatin and yopu dont want to put ya self or others in danger..so go do wats right and get test

You can get Hiv!

1. Oral sex
2. Breast milk
3. blood
4. fingering a girl and having a cut on your hand or jack off a guy!
5. any contact with blood and any open on your body

like nose, eyes, etc.

Thank you to everyone who replied and made comment on this thread.

 

 MnkCDR34 – thanks for the info. Very good advise – Thanks again

 

EmeraldFalcon – you are a cool dude – thanks for the facts.

 

Random_lee – My boy has that kind of problem. He has been living with it for years. Open and close stage, it’s not cool.

 

Westcoastlove21 – don’t be too harsh. I hope you take the test on the home page and watch the show when it airs.

 

Honey_Cinnamon – Bless U Honey

 

Bonnie9606 – thanks for the luv

 

Mrsmikeslater – Interesting

 

1ana2ana3ana – Thank you for your post

well first of all you cannot get hiv by tongue kising. you can only get hiv by sexual intercourse or by blood like if they have an open sore on their hand and you have one and yall hold hands u can get hiv that way...along with hiv you do not get bumps or anything so i figure that you should go to the doctor before you tell her and if you do have something then you need to let her know most definitley it would be wrong if you didnt

You can get HIV from bodily fluids, now they don't have any known cases of catching it from kissing. Anything is possible! And you really need to start using condoms. Also if your with a young lady and she doesn't request you use a condom with her , and proceeds to let you have sex up in her raw, shame on both of you. Red flags should have started going off in your head. I am a young woman and I keep condoms.  Both of you need a whoopin! Condoms are the only way to go. You can easily request them at the clinic for free. AIDS is already killing up our race, why help it spread. Get an HIV and STD test ASAP! Also you can get results from your HIV test to show your partner, to prove to them you don't have AIDS , and you should request one from them if you really want to be on the safe side. Or request she get an HIV  test if she hasn't already done so, for your sake. If you have bumps and knots on your genitals then you really need to go to the dr. and let your gf know to get herself checked out, because if you sleeping with her w/o a condom, then who else have you two  been with RAW that may have given you something you don't know about since ya'll obviously don't like to play it safe with your life! I hope this helps you out.

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